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Ethics of Lust
How strong is your sex drive, we've done that question quite a few times but for this question, it's not just how horny do you get and how often do you want sex , it's a topic of how far have you or would you go to satisfy your physical need for sex?
Have you, or would you.... have sex with someone you don't even like, lead someone on that you don't like just for sex, have sex with someone that you know you shouldn't, like a best friends current or ex? Would you or have you had sex with a friend knowing that you risk the friendship ?
Have you or would you have a one nighter with a stranger and damn the possible consequences?
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| January 2, 2011, 16:15 |
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thechunkyone
35 / male
elizabeth, New Jersey, US
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Re: Ethics of Lust
one of my best friend i like for a while i wanna have sex with her but kinda wanna make it something more. another girl i know i like know it wouldn't work out but would luv to do her and yea i tried some things. like lil web cam things and such. even tried a bet to gte her to go to a nude beach.
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| January 2, 2011, 16:39 |
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Iwant2kssuallovr
62 / female
Bendover, Florida, US
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Re: Ethics of Lust
Quote Chazzy " have sex with someone that you know you shouldn't, like a best friends current or ex?"
Does having sex with your boyfriend's best friend count? And, his best friend's brother? And no, it wasn't all at the same time.
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| January 2, 2011, 16:40 |
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perveman
111 / male
Tucson, Arizona, US
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Re: Ethics of Lust
Interesting Chazz lady. I may be what I am, but NO, to all the above. Want all to be on the up and up. Life's too short to screw up, (anymore). It's a matter of all's comfort as well. And what is wrong, is just wrong. Like trying to call a cow, a horse. Call it a horse all day, it's still a cow. I'd rather take a nap before violating the rules. Am I ethical? I really don't care what anyone else thinks, the facts are still the same. But far be it for me to judge others. Bet you did'nt see that one coming from me huh? Good topic Chazzy. 
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| January 2, 2011, 16:50 |
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perveman
111 / male
Tucson, Arizona, US
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QUOTE (perveman @ January 2, 2011, 16:50)Interesting Chazz lady. I may be what I am, but NO, to all the above. Want all to be on the up and up. Life's too short to screw up, (anymore). It's a matter of all's comfort as well. And what is wrong, is just wrong. Like trying to call a cow, a horse. Call it a horse all day, it's still a cow. I'd rather take a nap before violating the rules. Am I ethical? I really don't care what anyone else thinks, the facts are still the same. But far be it for me to judge others. Bet you did'nt see that one coming from me huh? Good topic Chazzy.
. And just one more point, ethics should always overide lust. It's just the right thing to do. I thought eveyone had more control than that. Don't they?
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| January 2, 2011, 16:58 |
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Re: Re: Ethics of Lust
QUOTE (Iwant2kssuallovr @ January 2, 2011, 16:40)Quote Chazzy " have sex with someone that you know you shouldn't, like a best friends current or ex?"
Does having sex with your boyfriend's best friend count? And, his best friend's brother? And no, it wasn't all at the same time.
Yes, anything that your sex drive would over-ride your better judgement.
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| January 2, 2011, 18:10 |
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Re: Ethics of Lust
with my last girlfriend, i kinda knew that i shouldn't have, but i just wanted to get laid . she was addicted to prescription drugs, and i would take her to the ER at 2am, (but she never got the drugs she was after), i would take her under the stipulation that i would get laid , but when it came right down to it, i never forced her to have sex with me. she wasn't that good in the sack anyway. she's out of my life now, and i'm much happier.
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| January 2, 2011, 18:40 |
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Iwant2kssuallovr
62 / female
Bendover, Florida, US
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Re: Re: Re: Ethics of Lust
QUOTE (Chazzy @ January 2, 2011, 18:10) QUOTE (Iwant2kssuallovr @ January 2, 2011, 16:40)Quote Chazzy " have sex with someone that you know you shouldn't, like a best friends current or ex?"
Does having sex with your boyfriend's best friend count? And, his best friend's brother? And no, it wasn't all at the same time.
Yes, anything that your sex drive would over-ride your better judgement.
I don't really think it was my sex drive, as much as theirs. As matter of fact, I know it, and still have to hear about it.
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| January 2, 2011, 18:53 |
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perveman
111 / male
Tucson, Arizona, US
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Re: Ethics of Lust
Totally understandacble, I did'nt take into consideration, others influence on another. Back in the day (now I'll tell on myselef) I was just a squirl, looking for a nut, a dog if you will. Ethics? What's that got to do with getting off? No good. Much better when all is on the level. Honest, as I present here, and in my every day dealings in all areas. A better way to live. That's my vote, I am the perveman, and I approve this message.
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| January 2, 2011, 19:12 |
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RightHandMan
53 / male
The midlands, England, UK
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Re: Ethics of Lust
Sometimes ethics need to take a back seat. After all, when the kettle's just boiled, it's a waste not to have a nice hot cuppa.
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| January 2, 2011, 22:59 |
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Re: Ethics of Lust
I'm sure most of us if not all of us, looking back, had some 'regretable sex'
Maybe when we were young, impetious, and we were fueled by chemistry and hormones.
Sometimes we rush in, act on impulse, sometimes it works out just great, maybe a time or two we look back with regret, or at least with a thought of maybe we shouldn't have?
In hindsight, I can say I have had 'regretable sex' can't change the past, but I can say I wanted to learn from it, not to repeat, or create a pattern of it.
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| January 3, 2011, 01:29 |
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hornybastd32
43 / male
Niskayuna, New York, US
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Re: Ethics of Lust
I've had lust get the better of me a time or two and it's never turned out well. The perveman has a point, it's better in the long run to keep things on the up and up, but it's just so damn hot some times doing the things (or people) I know I shouldn't that I find it hard to stop. Read whatever puns you like into the previous sentence.
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| January 3, 2011, 06:36 |
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perveman
111 / male
Tucson, Arizona, US
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QUOTE (Chazzy @ January 3, 2011, 01:29)I'm sure most of us if not all of us, looking back, had some 'regretable sex'
Maybe when we were young, impetious, and we were fueled by chemistry and hormones.
Sometimes we rush in, act on impulse, sometimes it works out just great, maybe a time or two we look back with regret, or at least with a thought of maybe we shouldn't have?
In hindsight, I can say I have had 'regretable sex' can't change the past, but I can say I wanted to learn from it, not to repeat, or create a pattern of it.
Well said. Exactly what I'm talking about. As we go on, we learn self control, and respect. 
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| January 3, 2011, 10:22 |
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wantubad2
54 / male
white creek, New York, US
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Re: Ethics of Lust
I am normal very ethical about all but at this time I would do all of the things that Chazzy mentioned.I have had sex with a ex,I would have sex with a friends women,I have had sex with someone I did not like,I did have sex with someone that I did not want a relationship with,I have had sex with someone I am not attracted to at all,but the best is when you are fully in love and both involved are more than happy to be there.
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| January 3, 2011, 10:55 |
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perveman
111 / male
Tucson, Arizona, US
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QUOTE (wantubad2 @ January 3, 2011, 10:55) I am normal very ethical about all but at this time I would do all of the things that Chazzy mentioned.I have had sex with a ex,I would have sex with a friends women,I have had sex with someone I did not like,I did have sex with someone that I did not want a relationship with,I have had sex with someone I am not attracted to at all,but the best is when you are fully in love and both involved are more than happy to be there.
Absolutey wantu. You are wise beyond your year's. Nothing better than making real love, to the one, you're totally IN love with, as I was with my gf, 10 year's ago (god rest her soul), nothing better before, or since. Yes (back on topic), ethics, never crossed my mind in my, rather tainted past. And my "hobby", has nothing to do with ethics, just a once in a while hobby, where all in agreement, and enjoy. Just for fun. Uh oh, got a bit  I apolgize.
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| January 3, 2011, 12:00 |
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yepper12
73 / male
Jeffersonville, Pennsylvania, US
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Re: Ethics of Lust
Well I have never been a user but if I care a lot look out guessthats why I'm not having any luck 
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| January 3, 2011, 23:07 |
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Re: Ethics of Lust
I have done some things in my past that I shouldn't really have done. However I never regret anything I have done since they all combine into making me who I am today and since I like me how can I regret anything lol
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| January 3, 2011, 23:36 |
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GG317
60 / male
Bowl of Granola, Massachusetts, US
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Re: Ethics of Lust
QUOTE (Chazzy @ January 2, 2011, 16:15)How strong is your sex drive, we've done that question quite a few times but for this question, it's not just how horny do you get and how often do you want sex , it's a topic of how far have you or would you go to satisfy your physical need for sex?
Have you, or would you.... have sex with someone you don't even like, lead someone on that you don't like just for sex, have sex with someone that you know you shouldn't, like a best friends current or ex? Would you or have you had sex with a friend knowing that you risk the friendship ?
Have you or would you have a one nighter with a stranger and damn the possible consequences?
Yes...Yes...Yes...Yes...Yes...Did I win?!... 
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| January 5, 2011, 05:07 |
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newbie1011
62 / female
The Shore, New Jersey, US
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Re: Ethics of Lust
I have always loved sex. I wouldn't say all my choices were good from many standpoints. Safety being one and maturity being another for example. I don't regret any of it because as Josie said it all is part of who I am.I never used someone unless you count me saying "This is only sex not a relationship. " but I always made that clear and I never found a man that had a problem with it. I never intentionally hurt someone although there were times people got hurt. Sometimes when your honest people don't want to believe you but that's out of your control.The one thing I ever did that was totally wrong was something that effected my life and someone I love very much but it was because of fear not lust. I can't complain I still have three great kids that I wouldn't have had if I made a different choice. I look forward much more than I look back. Most times that I've done things that were sex driven that could have gone bad turned out really well for me. I think I'm just lucky like that.
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