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Fake part 2
I've seen a few posts concerning "fake" profiles lately.
So, my question is this. What constitutes a fake profile? Is it that the person or people don't answer as soon as YOU think they should? Don't answer at all? Is it that you just joined and no one feels they know you well enough to respond? It couldn't be that you sent a "I'm within 100 miles, lets fuck" e-mail.
This shouldn't be any different than meeting people in person. Ya may want to keep that in mind when ya write someone.
Just my thoughts on this. 
Merry Christmas!!
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| December 11, 2010, 02:44 |
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Re: Fake part 2
I'm not sure what some mean when they think a profile is "fake".
This site could make a big ass butt load of money if they wanted to make a turn at Unethical Intersetion and head on down Sleazy Street...but...this site has always had a strong policy on not allowing fake profiles, solictors, camgirls and scammers.
I think there is some confusion, and I will spend whatever time neccessary to find out why some profiles are seen as fake by a few.
I look at allot of profiles everyday, anything suspect is checked out and dealt with
This site's reputation is that it is a real site for real people , and we (members) work hard to maintain that.
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| December 11, 2010, 03:20 |
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Re: Re: Fake part 2
QUOTE (Chazzy @ December 11, 2010, 03:20)I'm not sure what some mean when they think a profile is "fake".
This site could make a big ass butt load of money if they wanted to make a turn at Unethical Intersetion and head on down Sleazy Street...but...this site has always had a strong policy on not allowing fake profiles, solictors, camgirls and scammers.
I think there is some confusion, and I will spend whatever time neccessary to find out why some profiles are seen as fake by a few.
I look at allot of profiles everyday, anything suspect is checked out and dealt with
This site's reputation is that it is a real site for real people , and we (members) work hard to maintain that.
Words are all to easy to throw around. Especially when the accusers aren't facing the accused.
That's why I posted this. I keep hearin' about fakes, yet these people NEVER state why they think the profiles are fake. Nor are they reported to a moderator. It's very well noted all over this site and in each profile to report "fake" profiles or those in violation of TOS.
Frankly, I have to wonder if these accusers aren't from another site trying to cause problems.
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| December 11, 2010, 03:27 |
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Re: Fake part 2
Some may be new to this site, and having been burnt on other sites, they just might be a bit too skeptical.
No, I've had no mail with someone telling me specifically what profiles they think are fake, and why they think so.
I've seen profiles that are a bit confusing, but confusing doesn't mean fake.
I do want to know, by private message...what profiles they think are fake, and why.
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| December 11, 2010, 03:31 |
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Iwant2kssuallovr
62 / female
Bendover, Florida, US
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Re: Fake part 2
I know someone specific sent me a note, and it looked like this:
Welllllll, I didn't have the energy initially to respond. Later, I did and explained you get what you put into it, and nothing happened because he put nothing into. As stated before, the site is not really about instant gratification and orgasim.
Also, I've found, the picture's posted my not be the person on the other end. However, I don't care. If that particular pic makes them feel better, fine by me.
Fake, not fake? I think we are all perceived in different ways, and I know for me, I look past the picture of the person, and at the mess on the floor or bed around them. This tells me a little about the type of person I'm dealing with. It doesn't make them bad, just messy!
I've been having a bigger issue lately with somes lack of patience. If I'm talking to someone else, they are put off and leave. However, I'm really not overly concerned, I do not intend to be rude, for anyone.
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| December 11, 2010, 03:57 |
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Re: Re: Fake part 2
QUOTE (Chazzy @ December 11, 2010, 03:31)Some may be new to this site, and having been burnt on other sites, they just might be a bit too skeptical.
No, I've had no mail with someone telling me specifically what profiles they think are fake, and why they think so.
I've seen profiles that are a bit confusing, but confusing doesn't mean fake.
One of my favorites was the guy a few years ago. You know the one. Was here for 2 hours and decided that there was a few overly opinionated people and that was it. Then ask how to deleate his profile. 
I do want to know, by private message...what profiles they think are fake, and why.
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| December 11, 2010, 03:59 |
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Iwant2kssuallovr
62 / female
Bendover, Florida, US
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Was here for 2 hours and decided that there was a few overly opinionated people and that was it.
Imagine that, overly opinionated people!
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| December 11, 2010, 04:28 |
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wandering5tar
53 / male
London, England, UK
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Re: Fake part 2
When two humans meet there are six characters present:
Each person as seen by themselves
Each person as seen by the other
Each person as they really are
And that's even before anyone starts pretending...
So, which ones are fake.
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| December 11, 2010, 08:38 |
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newbie1011
62 / female
The Shore, New Jersey, US
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Re: Fake part 2
I have heard the "fake" comment used in many ways. One guy basically accused every 20 something year old in the chat room that wouldn't respond to him or chat in open chat a "cam-girl". Some think that if someone lies about their age or weight or other details that makes it a "fake " profile. I have had others refer to "fake" profiles as people who put down they are up for anything and don't want to do anything.(With him). Peoples perceptions can be off and maybe there is a way to explain somewhere what is considered "FAKE: FROM THE PROSPECTIVE OF THE SITE ADMINS". Its very subjective right now. I believe most of us understand that what the admins version of fake would be more like someone trying to lure you to another site but comes on here pretending to be just another member is more what they have in mind.Unfortunately as I have stated before some people have unrealistic expectations therefore decide this is all fake when their expectations aren't met. What should we say when this site exceeds our expectation? When someones ego/pride gets in the way they find it easier to blame everything and everyone except themselves.I can tell you I have spotted many profiles with age conflicts when they checked off the age but write a different age in the written part of the profile. I have also seen many pictures that I just know are from the 70's to 80's based on various things in the pictures. I understand why people lie about certain things like weight height, age etc.. I don't have to agree with it but I do understand it. I have seen many men and women called all kinds of names based on everything from age , weight etc. Sometimes I wonder if we would all be better not giving out any of that info until we really got to know a person.Again I know that's not how most people think but the fantasy world of not judging people on any of those things would be nice.
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| December 11, 2010, 21:14 |
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Re: Fake part 2
The complaint in the support forum, I'm seeing as someone thinking we have fake profiles of people that don't exist, in order to further promote the websites membership numbers. That is absolutely not done here.
Not gonna wallow in grey areas and doubt if someone is accurtate with their height and weight, doubt and decided whether or not someone is indeed the best at giving oral sex , or is the hottest, who is truly the horniest.
None of this makes a fake profile, just people acting human.
It's exactly what anyone would find anywhere, on the internet, in a bar....everywhere.
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| December 11, 2010, 21:34 |
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Re: Re: Fake part 2
QUOTE (wandering5tar @ December 11, 2010, 08:38)When two humans meet there are six characters present:
Each person as seen by themselves
Each person as seen by the other
Each person as they really are
And that's even before anyone starts pretending...
So, which ones are fake.
I do love this....everyone wants to present themselves in a positive way, justify any negative characther flaws.
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| December 11, 2010, 21:38 |
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ashkats
65 / couple
crystal falls, Michigan, US
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| December 11, 2010, 23:23 |
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Re: Fake part 2
the only thing that might be fake here, that i've seen...may have been a set of boobs or two.. 
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| December 11, 2010, 23:26 |
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newbie1011
62 / female
The Shore, New Jersey, US
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Re: Fake part 2
After reading what Chazzy wrote I had visions of people saying "So it says in your profile that you're the best at giving oral ? Prove it!" Could you imagine all the things that people claim being tested for accuracy? Lets see that ruler that says 90% of the guys here have at least 10 inches. And they would go down on me all night!Hmmm... I think I want to volunteer to be the person that checks that out for accuracy.lol
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| December 12, 2010, 00:43 |
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Re: Re: Fake part 2
QUOTE (newbie1011 @ December 12, 2010, 00:43)After reading what Chazzy wrote I had visions of people saying "So it says in your profile that you're the best at giving oral ? Prove it!" Could you imagine all the things that people claim being tested for accuracy? Lets see that ruler that says 90% of the guys here have at least 10 inches. And they would go down on me all night!Hmmm... I think I want to volunteer to be the person that checks that out for accuracy.lol
I said it before--what they mean is millimeters
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| December 12, 2010, 15:16 |
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robinragnorok
65 / male
Independence, Missouri, US
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Re: Fake part 2
I've been kinda laying back and reading for a while. You know, I'm not at al happy with anyone who is not totally honest in every way. What you write, what photos you put up tells people who you are! To me it is a lie to do anything that is not up to date and exactly and I mean exactly who and what you are. If you can't be honest in your profile and pics I can't trust you the person.
Robin
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| December 14, 2010, 17:47 |
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perveman
111 / male
Tucson, Arizona, US
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Re: Fake part 2
I just should anyone doubt me at all. Simple, come to Tucson, will tell you where I'm at, or meet you elswhere, all would be confirmed. Point is, I'm totally honest of who I am, just don't know what would be the idea, or sense in bothering in the first place. Trust me, lie's always get found out. Happy New Year all. 
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| December 27, 2010, 12:22 |
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Re: Fake part 2
It seems to me that the people making these accusations are new. I feel they don't take the time to know the site and people. It's not an instant thing. These accusers also seem to never have a pic of theemselves.
I'm honest in my profile and expect others to be the same. I not only posted a face pic here but i have on other sites as well.
This part is  ---- I think it's funny how people won't post a face pic becasue of thier ooccupation. Well, if they see your pic on here or another site, ya'd just have to ask what they're doin' there.
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| December 27, 2010, 12:36 |
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perveman
111 / male
Tucson, Arizona, US
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Re: Re: Fake part 2
QUOTE (OOMG @ December 27, 2010, 12:36)It seems to me that the people making these accusations are new. I feel they don't take the time to know the site and people. It's not an instant thing. These accusers also seem to never have a pic of theemselves.
I'm honest in my profile and expect others to be the same. I not only posted a face pic here but i have on other sites as well.
This part is ---- I think it's funny how people won't post a face pic becasue of thier ooccupation. Well, if they see your pic on here or another site, ya'd just have to ask what they're doin' there.
. Bravo  and well said. 
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| December 27, 2010, 19:51 |
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ashkats
65 / couple
crystal falls, Michigan, US
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Re: Fake part 2
we were on another site and still are were going to party's , were starting to have a good time but things started getting out of hand we had a few creeps tagging along , no offense to anyone , and then the one that were having parties east of us were getting raided by a church group with TV crews it wasn't good , it started close meets that are RSVP invites now thing are mostly dead for meet and greets but are starting again , but for us are far away for driving and the motel rooms prices are crazy, and them ya find out you got a res at supper 8 and the whole place was book by the cub scouts and the pool is full of kids.....
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| December 27, 2010, 23:20 |
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