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The topic of cleavage
For women, what factors into the decision to show cleavage or not, or how much to show?
Do you show a little when you think you need to have an impact and influence, when you think it'll give you a little 'edge' like better customer service, discount, etc... Do you show cleavage when you want to be seen as sexy, or because it makes you feel sexy?
For men...how much does cleavage influence you? Do you give more attention to women showing it? Or...keep an unbiased mind while still enjoying the view?
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| November 15, 2010, 21:20 |
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Re: The topic of cleavage
The type of clothing I choose is purely based on if I like it. If it shows cleavage it does, if not then not.
If I am on a "date" then a little is always good, but would never use cleavage in a professional sense. I want my personality and professionalism to be the thing that matters not big breasts .
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| November 15, 2010, 21:23 |
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Re: The topic of cleavage
To show, or not to show. That is the question. The only thing I have to say about this is that women have a choice. And when they show, it seems to me that they're showing for a reason - TO BE SEEN! Which is why it amazes me that someone who is showing their assets, acts disgusted when they catch someone looking! We men are very basic creatures and we WILL look. We HAVE to look. We cant help it. Its in our DNA. Even if we are trying to be discreet, and trying not to allow our eyes to be drawn there, trust me, its gonna happen. If I had a crazed woman with major cleavage showing, coming at me with an axe, I would look first, then run!
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| November 15, 2010, 21:43 |
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Re: Re: The topic of cleavage
QUOTE (freensleazy @ November 15, 2010, 21:43)To show, or not to show. That is the question. The only thing I have to say about this is that women have a choice. And when they show, it seems to me that they're showing for a reason - TO BE SEEN! Which is why it amazes me that someone who is showing their assets, acts disgusted when they catch someone looking! We men are very basic creatures and we WILL look. We HAVE to look. We cant help it. Its in our DNA. Even if we are trying to be discreet, and trying not to allow our eyes to be drawn there, trust me, its gonna happen. If I had a crazed woman with major cleavage showing, coming at me with an axe, I would look first, then run!
I want to test that theory *reaching for my axe*
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| November 15, 2010, 21:50 |
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Re: Re: Re: The topic of cleavage
QUOTE (Josie34 @ November 15, 2010, 21:50) QUOTE (freensleazy @ November 15, 2010, 21:43)To show, or not to show. That is the question. The only thing I have to say about this is that women have a choice. And when they show, it seems to me that they're showing for a reason - TO BE SEEN! Which is why it amazes me that someone who is showing their assets, acts disgusted when they catch someone looking! We men are very basic creatures and we WILL look. We HAVE to look. We cant help it. Its in our DNA. Even if we are trying to be discreet, and trying not to allow our eyes to be drawn there, trust me, its gonna happen. If I had a crazed woman with major cleavage showing, coming at me with an axe, I would look first, then run!
I want to test that theory *reaching for my axe*
(laughing) I think you'll fnd that its fact, not theory!
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| November 15, 2010, 21:54 |
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ashkats
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crystal falls, Michigan, US
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Re: The topic of cleavage
for me cleavage is fine but when some gal bends over in front of me and it turns into a peep show and ya can reach right it and cop a feel, like really hapens a lot in stores and such, like free says, we are guys, we're going to look .
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| November 18, 2010, 05:37 |
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newbie1011
62 / female
The Shore, New Jersey, US
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Re: The topic of cleavage
I dress the way I like to dress. I have to like it first and foremost. I have large breasts and trust me even if I where a turtle neck people still stare at them. My daughter was saying she has caught some of her male friends staring at my chest.
There are circumstances where I use it to my advantage. I have had many jobs in my life. I have been working since I'm 12 When I worked in a country western bar I wore tight t-shirts with low scoop neck(UNIFORM) When I worked in GOGO bars (Some places call them strip clubs.) I wore very skimpy body suits for bartending and Obviously g-strings and a skimpy top when dancing. (The places I worked you weren't allowed to strip to nude). In the Health club I was Back to Body suits. As an advertising account Exec I wore women suits or dresses . I was dress more conservative but always showed some cleavage and there were clients I would show more cleavage if I thought it would get a bigger contract. I believe as long as I'm not hanging out its OK. No one was ever allowed to touch me. I still had to do my job to keep the client or all the cleavage in the would wouldn't get the client to stay on air. Like anything else Cleavage is a tool I can use and I do use it.
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| November 18, 2010, 17:49 |
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Re: Re: The topic of cleavage
QUOTE (newbie1011 @ November 18, 2010, 17:49)I dress the way I like to dress. I have to like it first and foremost. I have large breasts and trust me even if I where a turtle neck people still stare at them. My daughter was saying she has caught some of her male friends staring at my chest.
There are circumstances where I use it to my advantage. I have had many jobs in my life. I have been working since I'm 12 When I worked in a country western bar I wore tight t-shirts with low scoop neck(UNIFORM) When I worked in GOGO bars (Some places call them strip clubs.) I wore very skimpy body suits for bartending and Obviously g-strings and a skimpy top when dancing. (The places I worked you weren't allowed to strip to nude). In the Health club I was Back to Body suits. As an advertising account Exec I wore women suits or dresses . I was dress more conservative but always showed some cleavage and there were clients I would show more cleavage if I thought it would get a bigger contract. I believe as long as I'm not hanging out its OK. No one was ever allowed to touch me. I still had to do my job to keep the client or all the cleavage in the would wouldn't get the client to stay on air. Like anything else Cleavage is a tool I can use and I do use it.
Maybe I needs to buy me some cleavage
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| November 18, 2010, 17:56 |
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JenTX
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East, Texas, US
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Re: The topic of cleavage
You wouldn't expect someone who had a great smile to not smile when they are working. They are a part of me the same as my arms or nose.
For a long time, I tried to minimize the attention my bust received. Then I realized (like Newbie) they are going to look anyway so I quit hiding them. But a woman doesn't have to show skin to make men drool either. (Sorry guys, the truth hurts.) As far as bending over and giving a peep show, I just forget sometimes that y'all are watching.
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| November 18, 2010, 19:16 |
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Iwant2kssuallovr
62 / female
Bendover, Florida, US
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Re: The topic of cleavage
I'm with Josie on this one. I am bigger than some, smaller than others. However, they stay because my sensational personality.
And, I've been around friends, and their kids, and kids friends. I insisted to be called by name. Not the one with the "butt", "boobs", "hair".
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| November 18, 2010, 20:59 |
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Re: Re: The topic of cleavage
QUOTE (Iwant2kssuallovr @ November 18, 2010, 20:59)I'm with Josie on this one. I am bigger than some, smaller than others. However, they stay because my sensational personality.
And, I've been around friends, and their kids, and kids friends. I insisted to be called by name. Not the one with the "butt", "boobs", "hair".
You left out "legs"
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| November 18, 2010, 21:27 |
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Re: The topic of cleavage
Kiss and I are usually together on most things. I find her an intelligent and wonderful woman
Legs..hmm usually wear jeans all the time
Also slightly on and off topic, the one time I actually caught myself saying "Nice Arse" to a guy in a bar he was shocked and told me not to treat him like a piece of meat lol
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| November 18, 2010, 21:59 |
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robinragnorok
65 / male
Independence, Missouri, US
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Re: The topic of cleavage
I'm. Just gonna hang back and watch if you girls don't mind.;-) I'd probably just drool or stutter or something else self degrading.....
Robin
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| November 23, 2010, 01:39 |
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Re: The topic of cleavage
I'm with Josie on this one...if I like the clothing, I'll wear it whether it shows cleavage or not. Being larger breasted, sometimes you just don't have a choice...its just...out there. I will "hide" it in certain situations however. I too have caught my sons friends looking and I know it embarasses the heck out of him. I tend to throw on a sweatshirt or something when they're around lol.
Having said all that, there are many days when I would kill to be flat-chested...the girls just "get in the way" 
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| November 23, 2010, 02:53 |
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kamarel
60 / male
Alexandria, Louisiana, US
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Re: The topic of cleavage
Ladies, I'll look even if you wear nothing at all
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| November 24, 2010, 03:12 |
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Re: The topic of cleavage
I am in a highly professional atmosphere and am always in dresses. Most of the outfits I have show cleavage and on the topic of legs are usually several inches above the knee. I usually have on four inch heels and that puts me a little over six foot tall. I am noticed when I walk in a room not just because of the way I dress but because of the confidence I have in myself.
Showing cleavage does have its advantages but I don't just flop the girls out there...do men look, hell yes they do, but that is expected and usually appreciated. I work hard to look nice everyday but my clothing is constanly complemented by women as well. Boobs are boobs and I do not care if a man notices them if he also looks into my eyes...
Women have the ability to captivate men in so many ways, if you put IT out there you should expect a reaction...classy is always the best way to go...
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| November 24, 2010, 11:27 |
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ashkats
65 / couple
crystal falls, Michigan, US
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Re: The topic of cleavage
well that's fine and all , its nice to see a gal in a nice dress and slicked up and all, for me i might just frown spent too many years working in adult bars and stuff while going though school, like its just hard to shoot a game of pool when some Chic's boobs are hanging out on the table almost and i don't want to see muff when your walking either...just doesn't leave much for imagination too
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| November 27, 2010, 05:23 |
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