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ashkats
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i was reading on the CBS evening news website about how offen a married couple should have sex , i would have to take a deep thought on that its a two way street...so I'm going to do a copy and paste and go from there..lol
i mean their throwing darts at a map ya know
their study of what the naboors are doing in bed?
Wayan Sriani lives with her husband, Wayan Kamar - their first names are both Wayan. When I first met them, their lives seemed so different from ours in the United States. He makes bamboo furniture by hand. She makes regular offerings to the Hindu gods. They live with their two children on just $10 a day.
Wayan and Wayan say life is perfect -- except for one nagging problem, one issue they just can't seem to resolve.
When asked how many times a week they think a married couple should have sex , Kamar replied, "I want it to be every day."
But his wife said, "We can once in a while, but if it's too often, it's tiring."
She says, after spending all day cooking the meals, taking care of the kids, and gathering the banana leaves for the offerings, the last thing she's in the mood for is messing around.
While he says he requires sex to stay energized at work. Basically, he's a man with needs and she's a woman who needs sleep. He's the honeymoon -- she's the headache.
Kamar talks about the issue to almost everyone, because he's always looking for "the best solution." He says he's tried meditation and yoga, but his drive just won't mellow. He also sent his wife to a healer who prescribed a boiling brew of leaves and liquids. She was supposed to drink it twice a day to feel frisky. But she didn't drink it. "I don't really like to take a lot of medicines," she said.
I kind of had to agree with her on this one. So I suggested to him that maybe he should forget the leaves and give petals a try. He said he's "never" given her flowers. He says guys in Bali don't really give flowers -- although he has asked his wife to suggest other romantic things he could do. But he said she doesn't answer him.
It's so fitting that I went all the way to Bali for a story I could have just as easily found in New York, or Topeka, or dare I say my own home.
It just goes to show that when you dig beneath race, religion and politics, you'll almost always find someone you can relate to.
In fact, after travelling around the world twice telling strangers' stories, I've concluded the only real difference between humans is that some people on Earth live for purpose and meaning - and the others are men.
and we think we have it hard ...
but then he wants it everyday well so did i, but nowadays I'm not so sure anymore lol
she says shes tired and its tiring...think i heard that before....
he wants the honeymoon everyday don't all us guys ? i mean i like to dip my wick too but she has to deal with the kids cooking and the banana leaves to pray to god...and shes tired after all that and needs sleep and has a headache....hell if shes asleep that the best time to attack and she went to the doc to get some Brew to make her hornie....make me wonder what it was ..... 
and the talking about having sex and making out and such but he gets no answer .....and she don't talk.
sounds like no communication
well they dug this all up with a dart in a globe an i wonder how it would of went higher up on the ball or even a younger couple , i myself am more relaxed and didnt sleep well when i was getting laid and the wife she gets her things done and she snuggles up with a blanket on the couch with a cat or two till i tell her go to bed so she can warm up the flannel sheets for me lol and as for sex well it happens 
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| October 18, 2010, 17:12 |
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Re: topic of the day
Pretty cool!
Maybe some of it it cultural, and maybe some of it is humanity.
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| October 19, 2010, 00:35 |
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ashkats
65 / couple
crystal falls, Michigan, US
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Re: topic of the day
indeed
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| October 20, 2010, 06:47 |
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ashkats
65 / couple
crystal falls, Michigan, US
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wow we went out loking for pumkins today cant beleave what they want in the stores for them five buck for ones the size of a basket ball....even the itty bitty one were 3 bucks, talk about a cash crop....
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| October 20, 2010, 06:55 |
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Whatcha going do with the pumkin? Is it for decor or pie?
You and the wife are always doin' something fun fun, you do allot of things together it seems, that's great.
Hubs works odd hours, very difficult to get him to do anything on his time off.
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| October 20, 2010, 11:51 |
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ashkats
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crystal falls, Michigan, US
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chazzy we just wanted one or two for carving and the they go for compost thats a lot of cash to throw away lol oh it too much work to make a pie out of them cookem down and grind till ya got filling just as easy to gt it in a can already.... our cops are now having tp live in the county they work and now they want them to work 12 hour shifts too... thatwill wear a guy out..
i used to hate the holidays bad enough i had to work 8 or 9 hour days plus saterday then the holidays too , people wanted their big screens and new tv s and dvd players and vcrs and satellite dishes and such.. glad it all crashed with nafta thanks to clinton.... 
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| October 20, 2010, 17:35 |
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