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newbie1011
62 / female
The Shore, New Jersey, US
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Does it bother you if one partner cums much more often than the other?
I have always been very fortunate and been able to cum easily and often. I do get frustrated at times that I can't make my partner do the same. Although almost all my partners throughout my life have told me I make them cum more than normal for them, It still bothers me at times. YES, I AM AWARE THAT IT IS PHYSICALLY IMPOSABLE FOR MEN TO CUM AS OFTEN AS I DO! Logically that is something that I understand. Emotionally I feel selfish that he makes me cum over and over and over and he isn't enjoying the same pleasure. I love making my partner cum.I get so turned on knowing I can do that for him. I am curious how others feel about this as I am sure many women run into the same issue.
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| September 26, 2010, 09:12 |
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wantubad2
54 / male
white creek, New York, US
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Re: Does it bother you if one partner cums much more often than the other?
I don't know newbie,but I feel just the opposite.I mean That I think there are way more men that cum than there are men that make women cum.I have had times where I could do everything possible and the women would just not reach orgasm,even though I did.Of course men can't have multipile orgasms like a women,and I have made women have that as well.Which is awesome.I hate when I cannot get a women to orgasm, because it makes me hot and very turned on when she does.
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| September 26, 2010, 11:05 |
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Re: Does it bother you if one partner cums much more often than the other?
Some men can do the rapid fire. I remember one man I was seeing came about 7 times in an hour and a half and I was impressed to say the least.
There are techniques to learn to give a man a couple of orgasms in a session. It's used in the immediate time right after an orgasm,
Men and women are so different and I do love that about us.
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| September 26, 2010, 12:06 |
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kamarel
60 / male
Alexandria, Louisiana, US
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Re: Does it bother you if one partner cums much more often than the other?
QUOTE (newbie1011 @ September 26, 2010, 09:12)I have always been very fortunate and been able to cum easily and often. I do get frustrated at times that I can't make my partner do the same. Although almost all my partners throughout my life have told me I make them cum more than normal for them, It still bothers me at times. YES, I AM AWARE THAT IT IS PHYSICALLY IMPOSABLE FOR MEN TO CUM AS OFTEN AS I DO! Logically that is something that I understand. Emotionally I feel selfish that he makes me cum over and over and over and he isn't enjoying the same pleasure. I love making my partner cum.I get so turned on knowing I can do that for him. I am curious how others feel about this as I am sure many women run into the same issue.
Personally, I LOVE that about you. I've been with others that didnt cum when I did and felt as you. Including one I couldnt make cum to save my life. The sheer fact that I know I can make you cum in a variety of ways makes me want to be more experimental.
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| September 26, 2010, 14:53 |
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Re: Does it bother you if one partner cums much more often than the other?
No newbie not impossible for a guy to cum the once lol
or there's something wrong with me lol.
But my partners have told me that they have never had sex with a guy that cums ,but stills stays hard, that can carry on and cum again and again and again staying hard all the time
Ive been told I'm a freak of nature lol
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| September 29, 2010, 22:22 |
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Iwant2kssuallovr
62 / female
Bendover, Florida, US
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Re: Does it bother you if one partner cums much more often than the other?
"a guy that cums, but stills stays hard, that can carry on and cum again and again and again staying hard all the time" I did tht to my ex and he totally freaked out. Don't get me wrong, he loved it.. kept saying "Look what you did to me."
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| September 29, 2010, 22:45 |
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BigDaddyJ
45 / male
Springfield, Massachusetts, US
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Re: Does it bother you if one partner cums much more often than the other?
Well I have to say speaking for myself making a women climax is amazing for me. I derive so much pleasure from making a women climax that every time she does it just makes me want to do it more and more. I would have to agree with karamel that it just makes you want to experiment more and find new ways of plesuring your playmate. So there's no reason to feel selfish. i would think that in many cases your multiple orgasms made your partners feel just as incredible as you did having them. I know I always feel like super man when i sex my playmates into a coma.   
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| September 30, 2010, 15:14 |
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Re: Re: Does it bother you if one partner cums much more often than the other?
QUOTE (Iwant2kssuallovr @ September 29, 2010, 22:45) I did tht to my ex and he totally freaked out. Don't get me wrong, he loved it.. kept saying "Look what you did to me."
Damn, I hang out with the wrong people
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| September 30, 2010, 15:32 |
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