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wantubad2
54 / male
white creek, New York, US
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blocking
In my time here I have been blocked by many women.My thing is,I don't even know why.We will be talking along having fun and all of a sudden wham,blocked with no reasoning.I think if someone blocks you they should at least tell you what the hell you did wrong.Anyone please feel free to share your thoughts
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| September 11, 2010, 09:21 |
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newbie1011
62 / female
The Shore, New Jersey, US
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Re: blocking
I wouldn't doubt that some women block if they feel embarrassed after playing on line with some men. Also some men get VERY possessive after you play with them.I have ran into that several times! I have seen you on here quit a bit and never found you pushy or possessive with me. (but it could be your not into me. lol)
It could be that sometimes they didn't like the experience after trying it .I do think in some cases you should tell someone your blocking them and why. However normally if your blocking someone its because they did something that would warrant it and you figure they should know that they pissed you off. I personally only blocked 2 people since I have been on here. I haven't told either one but I felt they knew why as they were annoying the hell out of me and I requested the stop on numerous occasions. I forgot I even blocked the first one because it was so long ago. The other was last night because the guy was a complete ASS!Most people just go away if you ask them to or ignore them long enough.Maybe the women that blocked you don't have the guts to tell you why or maybe you are doing something that frightens or annoys them. I couldn't answer that. But if it happens a lot maybe you should take a hard look at what you doing. Be honest with yourself and see if you can change what might be the issue.
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| September 11, 2010, 15:28 |
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wantubad2
54 / male
white creek, New York, US
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Re: blocking
I have not been blocked in a while now,but in the other cases that I have.I was not aggressive,I was just playing and giving what they asked for.I was stumped and it bothered me.So I just thought I would ask to see what the reaction would be.I def. did not bother anyone that did not want me to.,if they said something bothered them I would not do it,and if they asked I would politely say thank you and I won't bother you again.
So you know newbie,I do like you that is one sweet boob you got there and I enjoy looking at it,,no doubt.I am more than willing to play with you if you ever wanna play just hit me up.
thank you newbie
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| September 11, 2010, 16:04 |
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ashkats
65 / couple
crystal falls, Michigan, US
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Re: blocking
well if a act like a goof you'll get blocked, us we haven't used it much, but i do like the ignore button on chat. and their are some rude folks on here time to time that just don't take no well. we even had on threaten to cut the wife up....those folk need turning in to the modulators
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| September 11, 2010, 18:44 |
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wantubad2
54 / male
white creek, New York, US
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Re: Re: blocking
I agree that there are people that prob. deserve but do not feel I have mistreated anyone. If someone is mean or cruel then yes block the hell out of them.
anyone that reads please just inform why. Thanks
I am sorry that you had to put up with talk like that.would never dream of harming anyone or saying it for that matter
QUOTE (ashkats @ September 11, 2010, 18:44)well if a act like a goof you'll get blocked, us we haven't used it much, but i do like the ignore button on chat. and their are some rude folks on here time to time that just don't take no well. we even had on threaten to cut the wife up....those folk need turning in to the modulators
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| September 11, 2010, 21:04 |
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ashkats
65 / couple
crystal falls, Michigan, US
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Re: blocking
i agree,ya kinda have a need to know what messed up so ya dont do it again, misunderstandings, maybe but ya should be able to send a note to ask whats wrong, it just could be some one got excited and shyed away.i on the other hand was worried about some showing up with a cricket bat wanting to womp me with it lol... i got over it they will too
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| September 12, 2010, 04:25 |
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wantubad2
54 / male
white creek, New York, US
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Re: Re: blocking
QUOTE (ashkats @ September 12, 2010, 04:25)i agree,ya kinda have a need to know what messed up so ya dont do it again, misunderstandings, maybe but ya should be able to send a note to ask whats wrong, it just could be some one got excited and shyed away.i on the other hand was worried about some showing up with a cricket bat wanting to womp me with it lol... i got over it they will too
Thank you,,you hit my point rite on the head.I can't fix if I don't know what is wrong
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| September 12, 2010, 10:21 |
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ashkats
65 / couple
crystal falls, Michigan, US
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Re: blocking
and you can't fix it if ya dont have the part like my mower...lol sounds like your part is doz of somekind of flowers....i take it ya didnt get a address did ya....?
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| September 12, 2010, 16:05 |
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funlovingpair
59 / couple
Frozen Tundra, Minnesota, US
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Re: blocking
It's all in the way the other person perceives the words. Of course the down side here is that we have no emotion's that go with the words. So what you think as maybe being nice, the other person takes it as your being pushy, jerkish or whatever. It's all a matter of mood, stress etc that the other person is going through at that time. Nothing we can do about that, other than keep the lines of commication open.
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| September 12, 2010, 16:18 |
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newbie1011
62 / female
The Shore, New Jersey, US
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Re: Re: blocking
QUOTE (funlovingpair @ September 12, 2010, 16:18)It's all in the way the other person perceives the words. Of course the down side here is that we have no emotion's that go with the words. So what you think as maybe being nice, the other person takes it as your being pushy, jerkish or whatever. It's all a matter of mood, stress etc that the other person is going through at that time. Nothing we can do about that, other than keep the lines of commication open.
Great point. I think they should add audio chat to this program.lol Then live video!Then people can see when I flip them off. That would help keep the lines way open!I know because I am so sarcastic its hard for people to know if I'm joking or not in text. That is the biggest downfall of this. I honestly wouldn't have been on here as much as I am if I didn't enjoy the people so much and forums as well as the stories that people write.I generally enjoy voice and video chat much better for the reasons already mentioned.Besides the fact that I suck at spelling and typing!
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| September 12, 2010, 17:25 |
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User no longer registered.
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Re: blocking
You, sarcastic? Who knew?
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| September 12, 2010, 17:39 |
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newbie1011
62 / female
The Shore, New Jersey, US
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Re: blocking
I know it's so hard to believe I could ever be sarcastic. I'm such a kind, gentle, shy person.
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| September 13, 2010, 04:02 |
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User no longer registered.
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Re: blocking
Don't take it personally, I've never heard any complaints about you, and in the times we have talked, you've never been offensive.
Men way outnumber women on every adult site, if a woman chose to block you, I'm pretty sure you would not be the only one she blocked. It could simply be a matter of her not having the time to connect with so many men and needing to narrow down her connections.
You're a good man, I wouldn't take it to heart.
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| September 16, 2010, 15:04 |
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