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Cypher10
35 / male
littleton, Colorado, US
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shyness
^^ hiya well it's a sort of simple question I guess but darn is it bugging me... okay so online and in real life I am affectionate have no personal bubble and love to cuddle... that's the good part about me.
Here's what's bugging me. I have no friends within my state because I am so darn shy o///o I am silent as a catapillar out when I am walking around and it bugs me cause my last friend that I was able to make now moved out of state and then I thought hey I am fine...
He moved out of state last week and now I am like feeling down in the dumps all the time because I have like no one that I can talk to in person.
any suggestions?
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| May 4, 2010, 05:50 |
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Re: shyness
Follow your heart, mind and soul.
Think of things that you have a strong interest in or passion for then look for gatherings based on that. It's the best way to be around people that you know will have a similar interest and that automatically gives you something you can talk about.
Join any charity/community program that will have you working with others for one day a week, or even one day a month like at the local food pantry.
Anything "spectator" like local games, shows, concerts will put you in a seat surrounded by others, and you're all there for the same reason, so easy to start up a little small talk.
Just start going out to places and events that interest you. First off, it's good for you to get out when you're feeling lonely, and secondly....you'll be around others with the same interests.
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| May 4, 2010, 11:13 |
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