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nineforu
77 / male
near Edmonton, Alberta, Canada
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Married and without.
I have been married for 33 years. For the past 10 years my wife has become disinterested in sex. She tells me it is because sex and romance are made for young people. She also says that at my age I should no longer need sex . I believe that a person is never too old to be giving and receiving sexual satisfaction. What I want to hear from members here is whether I should get my own satisfaction by masturbating or should I seek other women so that I can give satisfaction also?
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| March 20, 2010, 05:18 |
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Re: Married and without.
No matter how old you are, we all have needs, so if one stops wanting and the other doesn't that causes a problem. But do we hurt the one we love by straying, and deprive ourselves of what we need in life as it is short enough as it is not to enjoy every minute. And should another person stop us living our life to the full!!!
I always say never look back with regrets, but i would never hurt someone else in order to do that, so it is a hard situation to be in. 
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| March 20, 2010, 12:52 |
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nineforu
77 / male
near Edmonton, Alberta, Canada
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Re: Married and without.
If I am approached by another woman for sexual pleasure will you think less of me if I do it?
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| March 20, 2010, 13:32 |
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Re: Married and without.
It is hard as i have been cheated on, but if you are not getting what you want at home, then you also deserve to be happy.
If you intend to leave your wife, thats one thing, if she will never find out, thats a different matter.
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| March 20, 2010, 16:41 |
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Re: Re: Married and without.
QUOTE (nineforu @ March 20, 2010, 13:32)If I am approached by another woman for sexual pleasure will you think less of me if I do it?
I've been on both sides of that fence hun, and it's not a fun place to be. Been cheated on many a times, down to my ex-hubby stating the condoms in his suitcase were ours, when I know they weren't and he used them on others while on business trips, never let alone the phone calls I received from woman where they would hang up, and I'd investigate the calls, to finding him in bed with another woman cold handedly. I was promised many a rose gardens, then lied to with stating one thing, then finding out situations never occurred after the facts, and many miles and thousands of dollars spent, to be with them (never let alone the aggravation I went through prior, thinking he loved me). I'd never be affiliated in any way sexually with another married person due to the encounters of lies and deceit I went through. I'll be anyones friend but will NEVER allow anything beyond friendship before, during and post of a split, til atlaeast a year after when the individual has had the opportunity to heal and grieve through it all.
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| March 20, 2010, 17:49 |
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cjroxy
59 / couple
Hot and Balmy, England, UK
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Re: Married and without.
sex or no sex, what you share with your wife, and have done for many years, is and must be worth a cheap sexual encounter .
I'm not saying that it is wrong to go with another for sexual pleasure only, but what would it do to your wife if she found out?
I do know that throughout all relationships, the importance on one thing or another with the relationship changes with time and age.
Treasure what you do have, remember the physical side is very important when done with love, trust, caring and gentleness.
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| March 20, 2010, 20:16 |
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