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alwaysnaked
65 / male
Sandy Beach, Florida, US
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What really excites a women in a chat sexy site?
Seriously, give me some advice on how better to please and be pleased. What makes one friend tell another what they liked the best? Never hurts to ask....alwaysnaked.
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| March 1, 2010, 07:49 |
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Re: What really excites a women in a chat sexy site?
Well, you're asking about a "chat sexy site"....
Site wide, that tough...If you're , let's say...looking at the "who's online" browsing profiles and sending messages, the same message isn't going to work well for every woman you contact. You really have to read the profile, try to get a feel for who they are and what they're looking for.
Each message should reflect that.
If you're talking about the chatrooms..if she's in the lobby, then you know....it's a casual non-sexual conversation. If she's in the Red Room then she's definitely open to cybersex .
I think the biggest mistake men make in the Chatrooms is the second a women pops in, she is overwhelmed with pop up instant messages from every man in the room wanting to go private immediately. If you think about that for a minute, you'll understand why that isn't such a good thing for the men to do. So...maybe if you start out the conversation within the more public area of the chatrooms, let her settle in a bit and talk to everyone, make a connection first then use the instant private messaging.
Women do complain about the deluge of pop ups the minute they enter chat. I often recommend for women to go straight to the settings and shut off the instant messaging for awhile, gives them a chance to talk to the room and find someone they do want to go private with, then they can turn the IM back on.
As far as what a woman wants to hear, check her profile, there's gotta be something there in the text and photos to work with.
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| March 1, 2010, 13:42 |
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Re: What really excites a women in a chat sexy site?
Calling out to all cybersexing chat women.....we need you right here to tell what you know.
How do you want to be approached for sex chat? Do you want to take the lead and guide the chat to where you want it to go, are you looking for that connection where the sex chat just flows?
We need to hear from you! You have the potential to make a big difference for so many men here.
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| March 1, 2010, 17:26 |
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