Myth: Lesbians have sex in incredibly hot locations.

Fact: The real thing rarely involves meeting each other in exotic locations and using massive quantities of body oil. Normal hawtlezsex occurs in the bedroom on the primary bed. *please note that I have a thing about kitchen tables and frequently will have hawtlezsex with Sarah on the table.*
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Myth: Lesbians use strapons.

Fact: Very few lesbians are interested in any kind of "penetration" sex. Primarily, they use their hands, feet, legs and mouths to pleasure each other, and only rarely is any device resembling a penis inserted into the vagina. *note that masturbation may include penetration*
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Myth: All Girls are 2 drinks away from being Lesbians.

Fact: Drink may lower anyones inhibitions. It does not change the basic sexual orientation of a person. Straight women and straight men often participate in limited homosexual activity. You are not a lesbian unless you are female and exclusively love women.
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Myth: A good fucking can convert a lesbian to straignt.

Fact: Ahahahahhahahah ahahaha hahahahhaa *cough*
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Myth: Lesbians enjoy performing for male audiences.

Fact: Actual lesbians rarely ever perform for anyone other than their partner. Pleasing a male is the last thing on their minds. Most lesbian sex in porn is performed by straight women acting as lesbians.
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Myth: Lesbians enjoy having a man join in their sexual activity.

Fact: ahahah ahahahahah ahahahahahaahhah *cough*
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Myth: Men are losing out on hot babes .

Fact: Many of the lesbian women are not nearly as hot as you would like to think. The same as in the hetero community, the ratio of dog to hot is probably 7 to 3. You probably notice more hot lesbians because 1 of the top 2 posters on this board is one. *no arrogance here*
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Essay part:

What are men not providing that women do provide for lesbians? There is no single quality a female possesses that cannot be duplicated by a male. The sex can be just as good, the intimacy can be just as incredible. I (and many other lesbians) am simply incapable of forming a true loving relationship with a man. I don't know why, it may be a disconnected synapse in my brain. I do not know, and I see no need to go into it in depth. The cause of lesbianism is not bad sex with men, or even bad love from men. It is that I can only be intimate (emotionally) with a woman.

I agree. Homosexuality is not normal; both the male and female of most species are required for progeneration. I do not profess to be normal, in fact I spent a great number of years attempting to fit into the normal mold. Had I not met Sarah, I might still be looking for a way to have the world consider me a normal person. Finally deciding that I do not need to be considered normal and accepting myself as I am was the single most satisfying thing I have done in my life to date.

Now, if you want to hear about how lesbians actually do have sex ....

I can be just as intimate as a woman, as long as I didnt feel like I was just a meal ticket, a jar opener, a trash hauler, yard boy, or the maytag repair man.

1 year anniversary for sarah and me.