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Who or what do you miss in your life?
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| January 8, 2010, 18:35 |
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My Angel who is very close to my heart 
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| January 8, 2010, 19:17 |
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of all the things i've lost in life? i miss my mind the most! 
seriously? the thing i miss most is my dad. he passed in 1992.
but sex is the next thing i miss the most... 
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| January 8, 2010, 19:59 |
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lunch
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| January 9, 2010, 01:50 |
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NRG4U
63 / male
Beaver City, Nebraska, US
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I miss our dear friend Lizzy, as im sure everyone who knew her does. She was kind, witty, funny & in the end before her passing i saw just how brave she was. What a incredible lady, & i miss her dearly
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| January 9, 2010, 01:56 |
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I miss my grown children immensely, but I know I'm where I need to be at the moment caretaking my parents here in PA. I miss having a companionship with a man, doing those simple silly things like watching TV to a hot and steamy night with loving him to pieces. With having a few special angels in heaven, I miss them terribly, (lost a ex hubby and a bf within a yr apart, and not in a very good and healthy way) hugs! 
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| January 9, 2010, 20:11 |
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My Man, he knows who he is  
And my nan and grandad 
Also i miss Liz still very much 
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| January 9, 2010, 20:15 |
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QUOTE (Knight234 @ January 8, 2010, 19:17)My Angel who is very close to my heart
u have a special angel then, do you? maybe she misses u too
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| January 11, 2010, 01:24 |
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I miss Liz very much too, ya'all....I write Kelly once in awhile, haven't heard much from him lately.
I sure miss my brother.
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| January 11, 2010, 13:54 |
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Grandelf
64 / male
Northern, Michigan, US
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So many things, My Dad died suddenly at age 66, he and I were very different in many ways and though we didn't fight, there was a wall between us. As he aged he mellowed, and we became closer then any time in my life. I felt accepted by him, My Dad, my friend! Just as we were making up for lost time he died. I did manage to tell him I loved him which was tough as he wasn't from the era where men readily did that, they showed you by their hard work and deeds, but not spoken. When I did, he was speechless, hugged me and said "Now you've done it, your going make me cry"...He NEVER cried but once that I ever saw. I miss him terribly, he passed almost twenty years ago.
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| January 12, 2010, 03:47 |
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I lost my dad 2 years ago ..and the missing intensifies rather than lessens..the loss of a loved one is the most terrible sadness anyone has to experience..they say time will heal..i ask does it really ?? Time passes but somehow does not heal all the loss we feel, though its passage makes us stronger. We might feel better with time but the loss we feel for loved ones can never be healed or taken away.
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| January 12, 2010, 16:05 |
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I'm in agreement, Knight...I had no idea the first anniversary date of my brother's passing, would be so hard.
I thought I would have been stronger a year later, but it was like a total rewind.
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| January 12, 2010, 17:33 |
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Health!!!
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| January 12, 2010, 17:40 |
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Grandelf
64 / male
Northern, Michigan, US
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Knight you mentioning that...I am exactly the same way and it's been almost 20 years. Sometimes it's as if I am still in that state of shock when I was told he passed. I was I swear in shock, numb thru the entire process at the funeral home and so on. I am quite emotional, have no problem letting feelings show yet I did not shed a tear. I was dying inside and wanted that release, to cry and just...couldn't. I felt guilty because of it...eventually it hit me, the reality of it all. He wasn't sick, he could outwork almost anyone, cutting wood, he built the house my mother is in, drilled the well by himself, made the septic tank...all by hand. No bulldozer or well driller! For the most part he built that place by himself. Then about a year later he passed. There is no less pain now. I went through every emotion, sadness, MUCH anger that he was taken, I cussed the starlit sky a few times...yelling as loud as I could, cussing God or whoever out with all that inner anger till I cracked and my body let me cry finally. But that was like two years after it happened.
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| January 12, 2010, 19:44 |
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JsGirl
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Queen Creek, Arizona, US
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My Gma,Shes on the other side of the veil now.My Sir...long story...
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| January 12, 2010, 20:13 |
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Took me 2 years as well and ended up on anti depressants. didn't help. You just need to let nature take it's course. Only 13 years for me but miss dad as much today as I did then. Lost all faith when it happened and, apart form weddings, christenings, and funerals, have never been back to church since. Still cry at things he used to like, but then I was a daddys' girl, on the other hand, can laugh at things he did at the end too. Dementia, robs people of everything, but you need to remember the good times or you would go mad.
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| January 13, 2010, 00:18 |
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Iwant2kssuallovr
62 / female
Bendover, Florida, US
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Okay, I'll post.. Just lost my dad 2 months ago. He was 86 and time had expired.
While visiting an dear friend a took the DVD of our old 35 mm films.
She enjoyed the hell out of them, especially in the beginning when dad is in the swimming pool. He makes a muscle, does a pose, then a little dance ending with
laughter.
It took me 7 years to get the 35 mm from my brother who was holding them hostage. I have yet to get a copy to my half-sister. Nancy said I need to.. she enjoyed it and did not even know him!! 
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| January 13, 2010, 02:07 |
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NRG4U
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Beaver City, Nebraska, US
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QUOTE (Iwant2kssuallovr @ January 13, 2010, 02:07)Okay, I'll post.. Just lost my dad 2 months ago. He was 86 and time had expired.
While visiting an dear friend a took the DVD of our old 35 mm films.
She enjoyed the hell out of them, especially in the beginning when dad is in the swimming pool. He makes a muscle, does a pose, then a little dance ending with
laughter.
It took me 7 years to get the 35 mm from my brother who was holding them hostage. I have yet to get a copy to my half-sister. Nancy said I need to.. she enjoyed it and did not even know him!! Im glad u got something special like that. My grandma did the same thing when my grandad died,held a journal grandad kept. told my mom she cud read it, but not copy it, what grandma forgot tho, is my mom has a photographic memory,, no kidding, mom can read a book & recite it back, almost word for word. we have gradndads journal now,,,,thanks to my moms incredible memory
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| January 13, 2010, 03:01 |
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Dad died in 2001 after many years of health problems. I do miss him very much but know he and my other dead relatives are watching me.
Sometimes when I see an old car I think that I'll have to tell dad about it. Then of course,---oops, I think i just did. 
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| January 13, 2010, 03:08 |
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my dad passed in 1992. sometimes i wish he was still here, to give me advice on things, like buying cars, and finding the right woman. i sometimes wonder if he'd have approved of my ex wife. but i KNOW he would have loved my girls. and they would have adored him! sometimes they ask me about him, and it's hard for me to talk about him to them. but i HAVE taken them to visit his gravesite, and they always say "grampa, we miss you, and we love you..." they are 8 and 5 it made me kinda sad that they never got to meet him, but it also made me proud that they are able to understand that he's never coming back.
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| January 13, 2010, 04:40 |
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Iwant2kssuallovr
62 / female
Bendover, Florida, US
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QUOTE (lonelyandhorny @ January 13, 2010, 04:40)my dad passed in 1992. sometimes i wish he was still here, to give me advice on things, like buying cars, and finding the right woman. i sometimes wonder if he'd have approved of my ex wife. but i KNOW he would have loved my girls. and they would have adored him! sometimes they ask me about him, and it's hard for me to talk about him to them. but i HAVE taken them to visit his gravesite, and they always say "grampa, we miss you, and we love you..." they are 8 and 5 it made me kinda sad that they never got to meet him, but it also made me proud that they are able to understand that he's never coming back.
You're doing good in keeping his memory alive. My brother has a 13 yr old and a 6 yr old. The 6 yr old just met my dad for the first (and last time) and didn't even know who he was.... nor will he ever.
This, however, seems to be okay with everyone. My family was broke as shit, but drove from Miami to Ohio every year to see my Grandma and Grandpa....five of us in Volkswagon bug.... that was in the DVD, too.
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| January 13, 2010, 15:15 |
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GG317
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Bowl of Granola, Massachusetts, US
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My ex-roommate and my sanity....she took off with it... 
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| January 15, 2010, 04:39 |
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QUOTE (GentleGiant388 @ January 15, 2010, 04:39)My ex-roommate and my sanity....she took off with it...
That's not necessarily a bad thing.
It's work for me for many years. 
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| January 15, 2010, 05:33 |
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JsGirl
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Queen Creek, Arizona, US
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I miss my mother, though she hasnt passed yet.At least I dont think she has.She travels the country, pretending shes not old enough to have grandkids & livin a very lonely party life.Id like to just say fuck it,her loss,but I worry...its just the way she is.
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| January 17, 2010, 17:51 |
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QUOTE (lonelyandhorny @ January 13, 2010, 04:40)my dad passed in 1992. sometimes i wish he was still here, to give me advice on things, like buying cars, and finding the right woman. i sometimes wonder if he'd have approved of my ex wife. but i KNOW he would have loved my girls. and they would have adored him! sometimes they ask me about him, and it's hard for me to talk about him to them. but i HAVE taken them to visit his gravesite, and they always say "grampa, we miss you, and we love you..." they are 8 and 5 it made me kinda sad that they never got to meet him, but it also made me proud that they are able to understand that he's never coming back.
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| January 18, 2010, 01:27 |
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L&H, gave u a hard time re snow shoveling but know how u feel re dad. My dad would have kicked sons ass for position he has found himself in now but at same time know would have loved babykins. Took her to cemetery when only 8 weeks old. Show her photos all the time and tell her who he is. Important to keep memories alive for however long and to let new generations know their history. Dad never approved of ex but do we listen.....no....... as previous generations we need to learn by our mistakes. Here's hoping u can find the love and joy that i have through this web site, or whatever other means you have found.
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| January 18, 2010, 01:39 |
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I miss being able to do things I use to be able to do, due to my health.
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| January 18, 2010, 03:10 |
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JsGirl
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Queen Creek, Arizona, US
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QUOTE (JsGirl @ January 17, 2010, 17:51)I miss my mother, though she hasnt passed yet.At least I dont think she has.She travels the country, pretending shes not old enough to have grandkids & livin a very lonely party life.Id like to just say fuck it,her loss,but I worry...its just the way she is.
So if youre female,58, live in Michigan(I think) & have a daughter in Az,inbx me.
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| January 26, 2010, 19:35 |
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A little bit of warmth from other people. Everyone around mean to be so indifferent!
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| January 28, 2010, 12:19 |
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Iwant2kssuallovr
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Bendover, Florida, US
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Well, I was missing having a dog. Now I have a puppy and I'm missing my clean house. She just found a little stuffed Doxie I've had since I was six. There is sawdust like you would not believe scattered all over. I can't even find the head of this thing. 
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| January 28, 2010, 16:11 |
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QUOTE (lovegeneration1 @ January 28, 2010, 12:19)A little bit of warmth from other people. Everyone around mean to be so indifferent!
I second that!
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| January 30, 2010, 15:36 |
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The old days... 
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| January 31, 2010, 06:47 |
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Missing those quiet, intimate, loving affairs to remember.
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