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hrnycupl80221
51 / couple
denver, Colorado, US
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How to approach women for 3sum?
Just asking some folks who know more more than us. My wife is bisexual, but has never approached women for sex . What is the best way to handle this....should I as the man take care of it? Should she do it? How does one approach this? be straight up front and honest? be devious and sly and coy? We have been approached thus far, and want to take control of the situation. Any opinions or ideas would be much appreciated!
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| December 16, 2009, 16:44 |
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jwsads
47 / female
Huntington, West Virginia, US
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Re: How to approach women for 3sum?
This is the same question i am wondering. Should my husband do it or me/ what to do and how to do it/ Help
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| February 10, 2010, 05:02 |
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Re: How to approach women for 3sum?
I think your wife and you should make the decision together. But br upfront, and don't beat around the bush. If one of you disagrees on the girl then I believe she shouldn't be chosen. (: hope this helps!
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| February 20, 2010, 15:17 |
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Re: How to approach women for 3sum?
Just be yourselves chillin out, shooting the breeze and if it feels that comfy, go for it.
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| February 21, 2010, 02:32 |
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sxxyram
47 / male
panchkula, India
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Re: How to approach women for 3sum?
those lady want fun with me
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| February 25, 2010, 04:35 |
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ashkats
65 / couple
crystal falls, Michigan, US
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Re: How to approach women for 3sum?
we invited a female Friend to party with us at some meet and greets after several events we got it together and were doing dinner and a movie at her house we were too drunk and musta passed out .i woke up later and had to get up i was cooking it ended when a guy she was dating got busted
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| April 17, 2010, 15:05 |
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newbie1011
62 / female
The Shore, New Jersey, US
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Re: How to approach women for 3sum?
I have been in many threesomes although never with another women besides myself. I wish I could tell you there is an easy answer for you. There are many variables. I will tell you what works for me and adapt as you will, I hope this helps you.
1 you (the main couple) have to agree on the who and where to do this.
2 have your do and donts known clearly to everyone involved example I only kiss and do anal with the man I am in the "relationship" with. I feel they are so personal that I want to save it for him.
3Make sure you are in a secure relationship You can not turn back the clock once its done. Some people are jealous and insecure and might get upset if they feel you are paying to much attention to the other person. Or if one is bigger,smaller,prettier etc.. you get the idea.
4don't get talked into it. DO IT BECAUSE YOU WANT TO NOT BECAUSE YOUR PARTNER DOES.
As far as how to approach the person to join you.that depends on them and you and the mood and circumstances so it is to hard to say. BUT DON'T APPROACH A DRUNK OR PERSON IN A SITUATION THAT WOULD SAY YES NOW BUT WOULDN'T UNDER NORMAL CONDITIONS.IT WILL COME BACK TO BITE YOU. Other than that feel things out, use your best judgment , relax and enjoy. More people are open to it than you think. Most people would think I'm Conservative and proper. Unless they asked or or spent time with me in bed.lol
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| May 5, 2010, 05:44 |
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JenTX
47 / female
East, Texas, US
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Re: How to approach women for 3sum?
My favorite approach was when I was working as a cashier. A couple came through my line. I'm a friendly person and was having a blast, cutting up with the customers. There were long lines but everyone leaving mine was smiling. When the couple got up to me, the guy turned to his wife and said in a normal voice, "Honey, I want her for Christmas." I turned blood red. I was 18 and severly niave. I didn't know people really did that. LOL I used my standard line at the time, "I really don't think my boyfriend would like that." When I got home, I told my bf what had happened. He was disappointed that I hadn't agreed. He would have let me go with them without a second thought. Sigh. I still regret that I didn't get their number. GIVE HER A WAY TO CONTACT YOU EVEN IF SHE TURNS YOU DOWN. I would have called them.
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| July 12, 2010, 06:38 |
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