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It's not good to get old.
Hi! What's a fella to do when he's 70 yrs old and no female is interested? I mean no female. I'm not using caps because I don't shout. But it's extremely frustrating when almost without exception, the women don't even want to chat, talk, eMail, not anything. When I was in the chat room, I asked if anyone wanted to chat with me and all I got was "Hi!" The women simply ignored me. Is this what Web Naughty is about? There's not a lot of time left for me and it looks like it's going to be lonely. Why can't women talk/chat? They sure do in person. Any advice?
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| August 23, 2009, 04:26 |
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Iwant2kssuallovr
62 / female
Bendover, Florida, US
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Re: It's not good to get old.
I chat with anyone, regardless of age, sex, location. I can't speak for everyone, at times the chat room are busy with general conversation. How long and how often are you in the chat rooms?
I have heard of other's state the girls won't chat because they are too old. That is the individual, not WN.
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| August 23, 2009, 07:21 |
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funlovingpair
59 / couple
Frozen Tundra, Minnesota, US
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Re: It's not good to get old.
I don't get into chat very often, but I've never turned anyone down who wants to chat. It hasn't mattered if they were male or female. Some times people are busy in private chat and only want to chat with one person at a time. Just be patient and you'll find people to chat with you.
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| August 23, 2009, 11:14 |
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Re: It's not good to get old.
Let me clarify. I went to chat. I jumped right in and said Hi! and did chat - with 1 person, male. There were 8 people in the room, and 6 didn't say anything. 2 were female, and I tried to draw them into the conversation. I did Not try private, only open. No responses. The others again, just sat there. I checked the profiles of everyone. There was no reason they couldn't simply say "I don't want to talk right now" or something similar. Courtesy. The chat with that lone male was cheerful, but certainly not sexy. I thought the red room was for some naughty chat . A few other times, I went in, and did not participate myself. There was no chat. I sat for a few minutes and waited for someone, anyone, to say something, anything. Nope. Nada. So after a few minutes, I said "Hi! Don't anyone want to talk"? I got no response. It was as though no one was there. I felt down. I do take meds to control depression and the lack of chat didn't help me one bit.
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| August 23, 2009, 15:11 |
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Re: It's not good to get old.
Ahh, tell ya what just might be going on there. It's not you I'm sure..
Many get into the chatroom and get involved in a private chat session with someone and end up totally unaware of anything going on in the more public chat area.
Some are logged into the chatroom, but again, get involved in browsing around the site and the internet and kinda get sidetracked from the chatroom and forget to check back in to see if anyone is chatting in there.
It's not you dear, it's happened to just about all of us, I know it's happened to me, I've popped in to what appears to be a room full of people, but no one is chatting in the public area, I just assume that they are either busy in private chat or got sidetracked browsing around.
Just depends on what room you're in, what crowd is there (some prefer the more public open chat area, some go just to find private chat....)
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| August 23, 2009, 15:51 |
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Re: It's not good to get old.
By the way dear, if you ever have any questions, or problems, or just wanna talk, write me anytime...happy to help!
Lighten up, loosen up, hang out....hang out with us in the General Discussions forum, you'll get to know quite a few of us there, it's fun...we'll get to know you too.
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| August 23, 2009, 15:53 |
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Re: It's not good to get old.
Like that you added a photo to your profile, you look very fun and friendly...
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| August 24, 2009, 00:22 |
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Re: It's not good to get old.
Maybe you should go to the Lobby, woman and man come there for casual talk. My short experience is that everyone in there is willing to talk. In the Redroom i agree with you.
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| August 24, 2009, 16:52 |
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Re: It's not good to get old.
I have yet to see more than 1 in the lobby. And that is usually a male and more often than not, in the UK. LOL I did visit another chat room on another adult site and there were 96 people in it. Now that's too many. You never get a word in edgewise. I like it when there's 6 to 10 people, with maybe 2 females (or more), so that everyone can get in and say something. So, I will continue to check the Red Room. Who knows, maybe some woman will be nice. lol
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| August 26, 2009, 00:11 |
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Re: It's not good to get old.
it's been a while since i've had a good chat session. but a few times, i've been using the pm feature, and ended up distracted by 3what the other room members were saying, so i usually just end up minimizing my browser, and just keeping the chat window open. if you had been in the room, and said "hello" during that time, i'd never even seen that you were in the room.
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| August 26, 2009, 05:41 |
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JsGirl
55 / couple
Queen Creek, Arizona, US
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Re: It's not good to get old.
Heya Tex..cheer up..I added you to my naughty list w/the intent of having a bit of intelligent convo @ some pt! you look like a nice guy .However,Im headed off to play in Real life lol gnite all.
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| November 9, 2009, 11:11 |
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Re: It's not good to get old.
If and when I go into the 'Lobby' and you're in there I'd enjoy chatting with you, just like I do with everyone. In fact, I'd rather chat amongst everyone within the chat room instead of in PM, especially when you've just met a person or people so you have a chance to get a feel them, and the atmosphere in the chat room whilst chatting.
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| November 9, 2009, 14:46 |
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