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lonely
when i get too lonely i go out to a bar.i only drink beer but i drink too much beer.if i was in a relationship this wouldn't happen.i hate to keep posting complaints but?
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| April 15, 2009, 00:50 |
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Re: lonely
First off, ya better not be drinkin' or driven or I'll track you down and personally kick your ass! 
Secondly, you are choosing to go drink...there are other choices...so don't tell me if you had a woman you wouldn't need to go drink, cuz then I'm sure you'd be like so many others, if you had a fight with her, had problems with her, or broke up with her, it wasn't working out with her...you'd blame her and go drinking.
I'll accept blaming loneliness, (I'm assuming you do not have an alcohol problem? Please be honest with me dear)
Cure the loneliness, or at least try really hard to. Instead of drinking and keeping this cycle going...break the cycle and start doing something different.
Try anything, try lots of things, there have got to be things you have an interest in, reading, hobbies, movies, something you always wanted to learn....indulge those positive things in yourself...take an adult class or two, get around to a hobby you've lost touch with or always wanted to try, or find a new interest...and join clubs (online and/or offline)
Volunteer somewhere, a few hours a week will make a difference in the world and in the lives of others, and in possibly in your life too.
Things ain't workin' for ya, start changing things.
I'm being very upfront, very sincere with you, you asked, and I made a strong effort to give you the best answer I can. I would love to see you become a happy man.
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| April 17, 2009, 09:48 |
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Re: lonely
Oh by the way, dear...the reason I suggested doing all those things in my previous post....because while you are out and about living your own life, you might actually start meeting people with similiar interests and such, some will be women even, some will be men yes, but often men have relatives, friends, co-workers, who happen to be women....just live your life, be worthwhile and the women will be there.
Sitting in a bar drunk, not an a big attraction for women...a (sober) guy who has an interest in life and actually has a life...that's a different story!
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