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Players...
Can you date, intimately, several people at the same time? Are you open about it or do you have to lie to keep up with it all, do you feel any guilt? At what point do you think you should tell someone they're not the only one ?
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| February 25, 2005, 07:09 |
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Re: Players...
Hell I would settle for dating only one, but the wife won't let me !!! However when I was younger was a different story. Use to do it all the time. If one found out and didn't like it there was always another to fill her slot. No Problem !!! However this was before the days of political correctness and being all touchy feely.
 
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| February 25, 2005, 09:21 |
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Whenever I've dated someone I always assumed that you could date or do whatever with who and however many people you want. Unless there was a discussion between two of you about being exclusive. I only dated one at a time myself but men that I dated had more dates than just me.
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| February 25, 2005, 12:17 |
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armybody
63 / male
Dallas, Texas, US
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Re: Players...
QUOTE (Chazzy @ February 25, 2005, 07:09)Can you date, intimately, several people at the same time? Are you open about it or do you have to lie to keep up with it all, do you feel any guilt? At what point do you think you should tell someone they're not the only one ?
If you're an unselfish skilled lover the man will never think about it.
If you're everything else, the woman would never think about it
As for myself, I'm monogamous as long as my needs are met. It doesn't take multiple partners to make me feel that way. It only takes one good one.
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| February 25, 2005, 12:32 |
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lv2tzz
67 / male
Santa Maria, California, US
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If there is one thing I have learned in this life is not to lie,especially to women.....as long as I was honest about dating,(more than one at the same time) I found that a woman could accept the situation as it was or move on! I can honestly say it made for better relatonships with women and created life long friendships, just by being honest!.......so guys you don't have to juggle women around or lie women, they will respect your honesty and the same goes for a woman! Why be jealous? I can say that I am still enjoying friendships with ex lovers. and We can still have great non sexual get togethers with some of the women being not only beautiful, but also beautiful inside as well!!What would you have at the end of a sexual relationship ? Great memories, fun times and hopefully a lasting friendship ,it does work!!I love so many things about a woman and to have their friendships.....what a lucky man! I still meet women and unless there is some type of mutual attraction (lust) must be there or why waste your time? Being a mature man has given me the wisdom of knowing women,there needs as well as the deserved respect! ..... 
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| February 26, 2005, 00:05 |
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Re: Players...
QUOTE (Chazzy @ February 25, 2005, 07:09)Can you date, intimately, several people at the same time? Are you open about it or do you have to lie to keep up with it all, do you feel any guilt? At what point do you think you should tell someone they're not the only one ?
I could never do that, because I have always devoted my time and thoughts to the person Im in love with, and even if I could keep up with it physicaly I wouldn't lie or hurt the one I loved.
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| February 26, 2005, 17:46 |
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Re: Players...
QUOTE (Chazzy @ February 25, 2005, 07:09)Can you date, intimately, several people at the same time?
No
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| February 26, 2005, 19:17 |
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allon
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salisbury, England, UK
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difficult one to answer, in so much as i have to take each relationship differently, if its a fuckbuddy relationship then no lies need to be told but when that disgusting 4 letter word 'love' rears its ugly head your in trouble. i have dated at times with several partners on the go and have had no qualms about doing so, but cannot do so if i fall in love and will then stay monogomous
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| February 27, 2005, 04:49 |
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goinsth4u
56 / male
sterling, Virginia, US
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Re: Players...
QUOTE (Chazzy @ February 25, 2005, 07:09)Can you date, intimately, several people at the same time? Are you open about it or do you have to lie to keep up with it all, do you feel any guilt? At what point do you think you should tell someone they're not the only one ?
oh yeah it's possible to date more than one or two people intimately! but for me it could'nt work because i have this damn thing called a conscience nowadays. years ago i was fine with it but now it would be an excercise in futility.
however if my partner wanted me to say bang her girlfriend. well i'd be there! i think pleasing ones partner is important enough to have an open mind nad be willing. of course as long as the one they want you to do has all her shots and papers in order! lol 
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| February 27, 2005, 05:28 |
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bawbie
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mesa, Arizona, US
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hint list
1) give them all the same pet name. this reduces the chance of using the wrong name during intimate moments.
2) tell the truth. in such a way that they don't believe it.
3) when you must lie, keep it simple. nothing ruins a good lie quicker than forgetting what you told them.
4) remember, you have the right to remain silent.
use it!
5) when backed into a corner, resort to oral sex .
please add other hints. who knows, someday i may need them.  3some .gif">
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| March 4, 2005, 23:53 |
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Re: Players...
QUOTE (Chazzy @ February 25, 2005, 07:09)Can you date, intimately, several people at the same time? Are you open about it or do you have to lie to keep up with it all, do you feel any guilt? At what point do you think you should tell someone they're not the only one ?
bumpin'
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