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Mooant
41 / male
New Britain, Connecticut, US
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Ex Contacted Me...
I basically got a "feeler" email last week from my ex to see if I wanted to start emailing back and forth again. It's been about a year and a half since she left me and now she suddenly wants to be able to talk after I've moved on with my life. Sadly, I still love her, but after all she's put me through, I doubt I could ever forgive her. I've sent a response back today, basically telling her how I feel, but am also asking her why she suddenly feels able to talk and what are her intentions out of talking again. I doubt I'll ever get the full truth from her, so I'm coming to my wonderful friends at webnaughty (that I should pay more attention too, sorry guys and gals), to hear your speculations about what might be happening.
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| December 25, 2008, 23:33 |
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Re: Ex Contacted Me...
I think you did the right thing.
Just take your time and see what she REALLY wants.
It is a bit strange that she in now trying to keep in touch. Unless she misses you also. 
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| December 26, 2008, 09:39 |
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Re: Ex Contacted Me...
Your Ex getting in touch again, that is going to be hard for you, as you said, you still love her. But you have moved on and done well to do so.
So i agree with JC about taking it slow, and keep your guard up as you are now the one in control of your life and you can make all the decisions about what happens with it.
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| December 26, 2008, 09:51 |
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Re: Ex Contacted Me...
We know how hard on you all that was, the marraige, seperation, divorce...
I do have the thinking that ex's are ex's for a good reason, it didn't work out.
You are young, handsome and have a brilliant mind. I would just hate to see you suffer the same pain all over again.
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| December 27, 2008, 21:27 |
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Re: Ex Contacted Me...
She's realizing she had a good one and wants to have that again! Tell her to move on!! jmo
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| December 31, 2008, 11:01 |
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Re: Re: Ex Contacted Me...
QUOTE (voyeurbill @ December 31, 2008, 11:01)She's realizing she had a good one and wants to have that again! Tell her to move on!! jmo
Amen brother.
She thought the grass was greener and realized it was not.
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Maybe she has tremendous guilt (not knowing the reason you two split) & needs to clear her mind.
Be slow & cautious.
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| January 3, 2009, 12:43 |
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cjroxy
59 / couple
Hot and Balmy, England, UK
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Re: Ex Contacted Me...
I tend to agree with the others honey, but if your love for her is still alive its very difficult to just walk away. Be careful and try and stay just friends. Keep it light and you be in control this time. Good luck and be true to yourself.
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| January 3, 2009, 16:21 |
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bulrush
63 / couple
lake havasu city, Arizona, US
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Re: Ex Contacted Me...
I'd be cautious knowing that I myself have went threw the same thing But sometimes the ex's want to know what went wrong and to try and learn from our mistakes
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| January 6, 2009, 09:04 |
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