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ashkats
64 / couple
crystal falls, Michigan, US
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Dear Web Naughty community
some nasty shit has happened i don't know were to begin, but my wife has been traumatized forever over it...just about totally ruined as a wife, i cant believe they are acting like they want to sweep it under......last Sunday after noon i get a call from the pastors wife when i got home from town , i went to get coffee filters and dog food . i get home and am told my wife was beat up and molested in the hospital. i at a total lose of words almost ....... 
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| December 14, 2008, 22:43 |
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funlovingpair
59 / couple
Frozen Tundra, Minnesota, US
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Re: Dear Web Naughty community
That is just terrible 
Ma
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| December 15, 2008, 07:40 |
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Re: Dear Web Naughty community
I am really sorry to hear that, send her my love and tell her i'm thinking of her 
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| December 15, 2008, 08:03 |
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Re: Dear Web Naughty community
What a horrible thing, please keep us informed on how she's recovering.
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| December 15, 2008, 09:58 |
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Re: Dear Web Naughty community
Absolutely heartbreaking and gut wrenching.....keep us updated please and I will of course, keep you both in my thoughts and prayers.
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| December 15, 2008, 13:30 |
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slowpoke2
52 / male
aberdeen, Scotland, UK
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Re: Dear Web Naughty community
so sorry to hear that buddy, we are all thinking about her here 
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| December 15, 2008, 16:14 |
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Re: Dear Web Naughty community
My thoughts and prayers are with them through this tragedy.
xox...
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| December 15, 2008, 16:20 |
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ashkats
64 / couple
crystal falls, Michigan, US
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Re: Dear Web Naughty community
i my self can hardly believe , when i ask questions they say "what else can i help you with' it sounds supiscous to me. then i had to take her someplace else and we finally got a iv bag on her for the dehidation and some vitimans she was in for 5 days and let out friday , she didnt want to stay ,though she was safe there, but not no more and wanted to go home ......now im dealing with her anger and the confusion, not sleeping with me, shes on the couch ....im lucky i can get a hug ands a smouch... them bastards , but i cant take the law in to my own hands as much as i like too. then make matters worse our son is coming for christmas and bring his new gal for use to meet and we just dont have the time for this bullshit...lol  
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| December 15, 2008, 18:55 |
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Re: Dear Web Naughty community
Someone...someone at the hospital should have given her some info on some victim trauma groups and couseling...
These things have to be worked out, I say just leave her alone for a bit, She's traumatized and so are you, dear.
If she's angry, try not to take it too personally, she's just acting out I'm sure.
We're here for ya....
Maybe if she isn't too willling to help herslelf right now, you could spend some time and research some online sites that have live chat , forums, and such. Sites that deal with the post trauma you both are suffering from, they can help deal with her and the whole horrific thing.
(Need help researching? Just holler, any of us here would be so happy to try and help in any way we can.)
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| December 15, 2008, 20:58 |
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ashkats
64 / couple
crystal falls, Michigan, US
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Re: Dear Web Naughty community
we are really grateful for the support i have set up some counseling for both of us, just burns my but had to cancal our appontments with the medical doctors, i dont feel we should go back to them after this
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| December 15, 2008, 21:38 |
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Re: Dear Web Naughty community
Sorry to hear about your wife,I hope the person or persons that done that gets it back double.I hope things turn out for the best and if I can help in any way let me know,Good luck.I'll pray for you.
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| December 15, 2008, 21:45 |
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Re: Dear Web Naughty community
Oh don't even get me started on Doctors! (Not happy with 'em right now myself)
You have to, need to feel respect and trust for your doctors, if you aren't comfortable, keep going till you find one you do trust.
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| December 15, 2008, 21:47 |
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40something
57 / female
In the Sun, Arizona, US
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Re: Dear Web Naughty community
I am so sorry. What a terrible difficult crime. I do agree with the counseling - individual as well as couple counseling. But don't expect quick results. This is going to take time and effort on both of your parts. Know that you have support --- we are here.
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| December 16, 2008, 01:15 |
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Re: Dear Web Naughty community
Definitely don't expect "quick" results. Now is the time that you as a man will be tested to the limit. Your wife has experienced the most frightening abuse that can happen to a woman. Her whole world has been turned upside down and her trust in just about everything has been stripped from her. Patience is the most important thing now. Her moods will change like the wind for quite some time. I wish you both peace during this time.
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| December 16, 2008, 06:50 |
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KINKYINTHEFALLS
56 / male
wild and wonderful, West Virginia, US
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Re: Dear Web Naughty community
I'm dumbfounded I don't know what else to say. This is outrageous and beyond fathom. I wish your wife a speedy recovery and that the perpetrator a quick demise. 
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| December 16, 2008, 23:07 |
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ashkats
64 / couple
crystal falls, Michigan, US
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Re: Dear Web Naughty community
well kinky im just speach less, and lony your right she has been turned upside down and ripped inside out...
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| December 16, 2008, 23:59 |
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KINKYINTHEFALLS
56 / male
wild and wonderful, West Virginia, US
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Re: Dear Web Naughty community
Ashcats I wish you all the best for the holidays and please let your wife know that we're all supporting her and your family.
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| December 18, 2008, 08:28 |
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cjroxy
59 / couple
Hot and Balmy, England, UK
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Re: Dear Web Naughty community
So sorry to hear your traumatic news.
Give your wife time to heal, and yes it will take a long long time. Being loving, understanding, compasionate, sensitive and giving her her own space is the best thing. If she wants to talk, let her talk, dont voice any opinion, what you think or feel are not going to help her at the moment.
Just be there for her when she needs you.
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| December 18, 2008, 14:54 |
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