I prefer a woman to use mostly her mouth with occasionally using some hand work..but if she can deepthroat really good, then she doesn't even need to use hands.

i do both, sometimes no hands, sometimes play with his balls or ass. But if im trying to get him off quickly using my hand to stroke him seems to help. if im stroking and sucking i will occasionally deep throat him then go back to focusing on his head with my mouth while i stroke the shaft massage the balls or prostate. guys ive been with seem to really like my bjs, but i definitely have changed techniques depending on the situation and the guy. But overall i would say i do both when giving head.

my wife gives the best bjs ever, and she never uses her hands. takes me awhile to cum, but she works for along time even after. my ex didn't like cum in her mouth, so it was like getting a hand job when I came. I think the important thing here is how she finishes it.

Hmmm this could be enlighting, I would love to learn what men likes. I enjoy the sucking -- but I can't fit it all in my mouth, so I usually use my hand -- but it seem like guys would like something else.