|
| AUTHOR |
MESSAGE |
|
User no longer registered.
|
Do you think after creating an on line friendship/relationship, can it be taken it to the next level of it becoming a reality?
|
| September 30, 2008, 00:11 |
|
Anonymous13
38 / male
Orlando, Florida, US
|
Re: Do you think after creating an on line friendship/relationship, can it be taken it to the next level of it becoming a reality?
I think this depends on a variety of things...1 of them being location which can dissolve the thought of it even going to the next level.. Gotta be willing to take a big chance on it too, cuz u have to remember that ur talking to an online version of that person, it could easily change in person...I'd say be careful with ur heart, but its good for simple hookups tho lol...  
|
| September 30, 2008, 00:34 |
|
User no longer registered.
|
Re: Do you think after creating an on line friendship/relationship, can it be taken it to the next level of it becoming a reality?
I totally, totally agree with you Anonymous13!! You could chat with someone for a very long time on line, then when you meet them, it's totally different, and I'm not talking even about sex or anything, just general life in itself.
 xox
|
| September 30, 2008, 00:56 |
|
User no longer registered.
|
Re: Do you think after creating an on line friendship/relationship, can it be taken it to the next level of it becoming a reality?
It has worked for us so far and we've been together for over a year and a half. It has taken time and patience but we both know the direction we are moving in and very happy together. The sex is amazing too!!!
|
| September 30, 2008, 08:52 |
|
User no longer registered.
|
Re: Re: Do you think after creating an on line friendship/relationship, can it be taken it to the next level of it becoming a reality?
QUOTE (beckandcall @ September 30, 2008, 08:52)It has worked for us so far and we've been together for over a year and a half. It has taken time and patience but we both know the direction we are moving in and very happy together. The sex is amazing too!!!
Yes, I agree, time and patience is very, very important and it's so wonderful to hear that you two are doing well!
xox
|
| September 30, 2008, 09:15 |
|
stevanos
65 / male
A place in Bendover, British Columbia, Canada
|
Re: Do you think after creating an on line friendship/relationship, can it be taken it to the next level of it becoming a reality?
Yes most definetly... I do believe it is possible to go to the next level, but I don't think I would given my situation. But I also believe that two people can have a meaningful relationship including falling in love online and maintaining it over a long period of time. It would have all the same aspects of a real relationship with a few, mutually agreed upon ground rules. It's understood that there will never be a meeting in person. It just lacks the physical portion of it. It's happened to me and we still are very good friends. I also agree that there could be a lot of unkowns if it becomes reality that you may have to deal with that could affect your relationship. 
|
| September 30, 2008, 11:10 |
|
User no longer registered.
|
Re: Do you think after creating an on line friendship/relationship, can it be taken it to the next level of it becoming a reality?
We've seen a lot of long term relaltionships here that started online...
People like discretion, so many dont' come out here in the public forums and talk about who they've dated or seen from this site, but it happens allot.
|
| September 30, 2008, 12:42 |
|
User no longer registered.
|
Re: Do you think after creating an on line friendship/relationship, can it be taken it to the next level of it becoming a reality?
It's no difference to meeting someone in person, you are both strangers to start with, Meeting someone online, you have the chance to find out everything about them first, get to know them before meeting them. I don't think it makes any difference what so ever, if you meet online, in a bar, on a bus or through friends. If it's meant to be it's meant to be. 
|
| September 30, 2008, 15:20 |
|
Jis4jugs
43 / couple
Eastern, South Dakota, US
|
Re: Do you think after creating an on line friendship/relationship, can it be taken it to the next level of it becoming a reality?
i hope so... BC and I met online and went from online to aquaintences to friends etc and now she lives with me as the stay at home mother of my kids.
|
| September 30, 2008, 22:20 |
|
Jis4jugs
43 / couple
Eastern, South Dakota, US
|
Re: Re: Do you think after creating an on line friendship/relationship, can it be taken it to the next level of it becoming a reality?
QUOTE (Jis4jugs @ September 30, 2008, 22:20)i hope so... BC and I met online and went from online to aquaintences to friends etc and now she lives with me as the stay at home mother of my kids.
Not just as the stay at home mother, but as his girlfriend too. lol.
|
| October 1, 2008, 10:33 |
|
cjroxy
59 / couple
Hot and Balmy, England, UK
|
Re: Do you think after creating an on line friendship/relationship, can it be taken it to the next level of it becoming a reality?
Yes, I think you can build on an on line friendship . The possibilities are there if you want them and building the friendship over time, with trust and patience that friendship /relationship could last a lifetime.
It makes no difference meeting someone on line or anywhere else, what someone tells you in their first message or meeting can be true or false, in the written word or face to face.
We have made some truly wonderful friends on this site, whom, I am sure we will be friends with for a very long time and we are there for each other.
As for meeting, I believe that will happen too. It may not be for anything sexual, but just to enjoy the friendship we have.
|
| October 1, 2008, 16:18 |
|
User no longer registered.
|
Re: Re: Do you think after creating an on line friendship/relationship, can it be taken it to the next level of it becoming a reality?
QUOTE (cjroxy @ October 1, 2008, 16:18)Yes, I think you can build on an on line friendship . The possibilities are there if you want them and building the friendship over time, with trust and patience that friendship /relationship could last a lifetime.
It makes no difference meeting someone on line or anywhere else, what someone tells you in their first message or meeting can be true or false, in the written word or face to face.
We have made some truly wonderful friends on this site, whom, I am sure we will be friends with for a very long time and we are there for each other.
As for meeting, I believe that will happen too. It may not be for anything sexual, but just to enjoy the friendship we have.
|
| October 1, 2008, 16:28 |
|
Jis4jugs
43 / couple
Eastern, South Dakota, US
|
Re: Re: Re: Do you think after creating an on line friendship/relationship, can it be taken it to the next level of it becoming a reality?
QUOTE (Jis4jugs @ October 1, 2008, 10:33) QUOTE (Jis4jugs @ September 30, 2008, 22:20)i hope so... BC and I met online and went from online to aquaintences to friends etc and now she lives with me as the stay at home mother of my kids.
Not just as the stay at home mother, but as his girlfriend too. lol.
lol. stay at home mother of my kids is a much more permanent title hon. girlfriends can come and go.
|
| October 1, 2008, 21:49 |
|
KINKYINTHEFALLS
56 / male
wild and wonderful, West Virginia, US
|
Re: Do you think after creating an on line friendship/relationship, can it be taken it to the next level of it becoming a reality?
I met the mother of my son online. We were together for 10 years and married for 6.
I've also met some really sweet and great people online so I say yes it can work. 
|
| October 1, 2008, 22:04 |
|
Jis4jugs
43 / couple
Eastern, South Dakota, US
|
Re: Re: Re: Re: Do you think after creating an on line friendship/relationship, can it be taken it to the next level of it becoming a reality?
QUOTE (Jis4jugs @ October 1, 2008, 21:49) QUOTE (Jis4jugs @ October 1, 2008, 10:33) QUOTE (Jis4jugs @ September 30, 2008, 22:20)i hope so... BC and I met online and went from online to aquaintences to friends etc and now she lives with me as the stay at home mother of my kids.
Not just as the stay at home mother, but as his girlfriend too. lol.
lol. stay at home mother of my kids is a much more permanent title hon. girlfriends can come and go.
true true. In that case, I, thank you for that. 
|
| October 1, 2008, 22:38 |
|
User no longer registered.
|
Re: Do you think after creating an on line friendship/relationship, can it be taken it to the next level of it becoming a reality?
Okay, long as everything is out on the table being down to earth honest, then maybe I could take the jump.
xox
|
| October 1, 2008, 23:35 |
|
funlovingpair
59 / couple
Frozen Tundra, Minnesota, US
|
Re: Do you think after creating an on line friendship/relationship, can it be taken it to the next level of it becoming a reality?
Yes, you can find some very wonderful people, BUT you can also find some real assholes. Caution is still advised, no matter how long you have had an on line relation. You really don't know that person, until you have meet them face to face and had the oppertunity to interact on a personal level.
|
| October 2, 2008, 09:04 |
|
User no longer registered.
|
Re: Re: Do you think after creating an on line friendship/relationship, can it be taken it to the next level of it becoming a reality?
QUOTE (funlovingpair @ October 2, 2008, 09:04)Yes, you can find some very wonderful people, BUT you can also find some real assholes. Caution is still advised, no matter how long you have had an on line relation. You really don't know that person, until you have meet them face to face and had the oppertunity to interact on a personal level.
 AND.... lived with them!
xox
|
| October 2, 2008, 13:15 |
|
User no longer registered.
|
Re: Do you think after creating an on line friendship/relationship, can it be taken it to the next level of it becoming a reality?
Hey, a quick background check isn't a bad idea, if you've reached a level of knowing each other by your full names.
Just a quick search or...look up the court records in their state that is free online. (I can go to a website for Missouri, type in a name and up pops all the court records for that person.) Which is another reason to be careful about giving out too much personal info, even your full name, if you've gotten any sort of record at all, even from years and years ago, eveb somethng like an order of protection or divorce filing...they can find your date of birth, current address, etc...but, you can find out if someone you are getting cyber involved with is of the "criminal nature"...
Check zabasearch, put in your own name and make sure no info shows up their, cuz if your name comes back in that search, it'll automatically show a street address, phone number, even a google map of exactly where your house is!
|
| October 2, 2008, 21:28 |
|
|
