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Does it really matter what one looks like?
"Don't judge a book by it's cover". Need I say more? 
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| September 11, 2008, 21:29 |
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Re: Does it really matter what one looks like?
I don't judge a book by it's cover. Plus I've learned not to judge people by thier appearance either.
is that what ya meant? huh is it? is it? is it? 
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| September 11, 2008, 21:31 |
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Re: Does it really matter what one looks like?
It sure is JC! One thing I despise is being judgmental of others, they should take a good look in the mirror.
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| September 11, 2008, 21:34 |
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Re: Does it really matter what one looks like?
Mirror irror one the wall, who's the ------------of them all?
[fill in the blank]  
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| September 11, 2008, 21:37 |
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Re: Does it really matter what one looks like?
The ignorant one, of course! 
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| September 11, 2008, 21:39 |
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Re: Does it really matter what one looks like?
is an ignoramous a dinsour?
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| September 11, 2008, 21:42 |
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Re: Re: Does it really matter what one looks like?
QUOTE (JCSOS @ September 11, 2008, 21:42) is an ignoramous a dinsour?
Could be through fossils.
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| September 11, 2008, 21:46 |
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Re: Does it really matter what one looks like?
QUOTE (ticaD @ September 11, 2008, 21:29)"Don't judge a book by it's cover". Need I say more?
xox
Unfortunately, it's human nature to be somehow effected by how someone looks. It ain't right but that's the way it is!
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| September 12, 2008, 07:02 |
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Liberalwife
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north, England, UK
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Re: Re: Does it really matter what one looks like?
QUOTE (voyeurbill @ September 12, 2008, 07:02) QUOTE (ticaD @ September 11, 2008, 21:29)"Don't judge a book by it's cover". Need I say more?
xox
Unfortunately, it's human nature to be somehow effected by how someone looks. It ain't right but that's the way it is!
Just like it aint right to make derogatory remarks about peoples size!
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| September 12, 2008, 07:24 |
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Re: Re: Re: Does it really matter what one looks like?
QUOTE (Liberalwife @ September 12, 2008, 07:24) QUOTE (voyeurbill @ September 12, 2008, 07:02) QUOTE (ticaD @ September 11, 2008, 21:29)"Don't judge a book by it's cover". Need I say more?
xox
Unfortunately, it's human nature to be somehow effected by how someone looks. It ain't right but that's the way it is!
Just like it aint right to make derogatory remarks about peoples size!
You are absolutely right about that Lib!! As I am a human  and a victim it's human frailties, I should be more tolerant of the "larger" people around me. 
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| September 12, 2008, 09:10 |
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Re: Re: Re: Re: Does it really matter what one looks like?
QUOTE (voyeurbill @ September 12, 2008, 09:10) QUOTE (Liberalwife @ September 12, 2008, 07:24) QUOTE (voyeurbill @ September 12, 2008, 07:02) QUOTE (ticaD @ September 11, 2008, 21:29)"Don't judge a book by it's cover". Need I say more?
xox
Unfortunately, it's human nature to be somehow effected by how someone looks. It ain't right but that's the way it is!
Just like it aint right to make derogatory remarks about peoples size!
You are absolutely right about that Lib!! As I am a human and I am a victim it's human frailties, I should be more tolerant of the "larger" people around me.
I've learned to "tolerant" a lot of things about others. Just as most that have met me in one way or another have learned to tolerate me. "You can do it and we can help"
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| September 12, 2008, 09:18 |
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Re: Does it really matter what one looks like?
It's what's on the inside that makes the person, not what's on the outside
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| September 12, 2008, 13:23 |
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Re: Re: Does it really matter what one looks like?
QUOTE (hotbubblegum @ September 12, 2008, 13:23)It's what's on the inside that makes the person, not what's on the outside
Try telling that to the esthetically challenged among us.....namely me. I been prematurely judged my entire life. Your theory looks good on paper but in real life.......... 
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| September 12, 2008, 13:32 |
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Re: Re: Re: Does it really matter what one looks like?
QUOTE (voyeurbill @ September 12, 2008, 13:32) QUOTE (hotbubblegum @ September 12, 2008, 13:23)It's what's on the inside that makes the person, not what's on the outside
Try telling that to the esthetically challenged among us.....namely me. I been prematurely judged my entire life. Your theory looks good on paper but in real life..........
In my experience hun, the kindness and decency in a person shines through more then what they look like!!! 
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| September 12, 2008, 13:34 |
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NRG4U
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Beaver City, Nebraska, US
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Re: Re: Does it really matter what one looks like?
QUOTE (hotbubblegum @ September 12, 2008, 13:23)It's what's on the inside that makes the person, not what's on the outside
oh, good thing. theres still hope for me then...lol
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| September 12, 2008, 13:41 |
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funlovingpair
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Re: Re: Re: Does it really matter what one looks like?
QUOTE (NRG4U @ September 12, 2008, 13:41) QUOTE (hotbubblegum @ September 12, 2008, 13:23)It's what's on the inside that makes the person, not what's on the outside oh, good thing. theres still hope for me then...lol
Your the exception...
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| September 12, 2008, 14:14 |
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wandering5tar
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Re: Does it really matter what one looks like?
Well, much as we all might like to think otherwise, it does matter. Lots of research has shown that, for example, "good looking" people are more likely to be found innocent in court or to get lighter sentences.
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| September 12, 2008, 17:11 |
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ashkats
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Re: Does it really matter what one looks like?
i must be scarrie even the kids look at me funny at certain times of the year
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| September 12, 2008, 21:42 |
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Re: Re: Does it really matter what one looks like?
QUOTE (ashkats @ September 12, 2008, 21:42)i must be scarrie even the kids look at me funny at certain times of the year
Oh Ashkats, stop beating yourself, you're great! Both of you are wonderful people, with a good heart!
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| September 13, 2008, 04:02 |
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Re: Re: Does it really matter what one looks like?
QUOTE (wandering5tar @ September 12, 2008, 17:11)Well, much as we all might like to think otherwise, it does matter. Lots of research has shown that, for example, "good looking" people are more likely to be found innocent in court or to get lighter sentences.
....and better lookin' people get the better jobs, have better lookin' kids and get all the modeling jobs. Hey I needed that job!!!!!!
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| September 13, 2008, 07:17 |
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prettyplze1
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Licking pussyville Essex, England, UK
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Re: Re: Does it really matter what one looks like?
QUOTE (wandering5tar @ September 12, 2008, 17:11)Well, much as we all might like to think otherwise, it does matter. Lots of research has shown that, for example, "good looking" people are more likely to be found innocent in court or to get lighter sentences.
I have to totally disagree with that, i'm in court all the time, and i've put some good lookers away!!!
It is the person and not what they look like that matters, and if a person can't see that, then they are the one who has the problem
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| September 13, 2008, 09:02 |
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Re: Does it really matter what one looks like?
Looks will get your attention, but most often it's really not the right kind of attention, I'd rather have someone staring me deeply in the eyes and actually listening to me rather than just keeping my company to stare at my ass or boobs.
Looks do not matter to allot of us, the men I've been seriously involved with ran quite a range of looks, some were handsome sure, but they had something else going on, a few were larger men (no not dick size) one was much older, a few a bit younger, bald, hairy, short, tall, husky, skinny...doesn't mean a thing to me...it's the soul and the mind that really fire me up, romantically and physically.
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| September 14, 2008, 22:06 |
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Re: Does it really matter what one looks like?
i've found that the an average looking woman tends to have more inner beauty...and i don't really like women that think they need to put on tons of make up to look better, natural beauty is what really gets me...  
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| September 14, 2008, 22:22 |
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| September 15, 2008, 00:55 |
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Re: Re: Does it really matter what one looks like?
QUOTE (lonelyandhorny @ September 14, 2008, 22:22)i've found that the an average looking woman tends to have more inner beauty...and i don't really like women that think they need to put on tons of make up to look better, natural beauty is what really gets me...
Allot of truth there, some people who are just born beautiful get through life so easily just on thier looks, they really don't get a chance, or even have the need to develope social and relationship skills. It's something they have to deal with (and not always deal with very well) much later in life when "the bloom is off the rose"
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| September 15, 2008, 11:14 |
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Re: Re: Does it really matter what one looks like?
QUOTE (lonelyandhorny @ September 14, 2008, 22:22)i've found that the an average looking woman tends to have more inner beauty...and i don't really like women that think they need to put on tons of make up to look better, natural beauty is what really gets me...
I don't own a chisel, no need! Seriously, on a daily basis I wear no make-up, when I go out, can't remember when I did that last, I'll put some on very lightly. I'll wear jeans/sweats, t-shirts anyday over monkey suits! Not a fancy-smancy type of lady (had that level of a lifestyle many moons ago, so I totally understand what it entails). If looking specifically on the exterior of a person, you might miss an opportunity of a life time.
xox
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| September 16, 2008, 01:11 |
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Re: Re: Re: Does it really matter what one looks like?
QUOTE (ticaD @ September 16, 2008, 01:11) QUOTE (lonelyandhorny @ September 14, 2008, 22:22)i've found that the an average looking woman tends to have more inner beauty...and i don't really like women that think they need to put on tons of make up to look better, natural beauty is what really gets me...
I don't own a chisel, no need! Seriously, on a daily basis I wear no make-up, when I go out, can't remember when I did that last, I'll put some on very lightly. I'll wear jeans/sweats, t-shirts anyday over monkey suits! Not a fancy-smancy type of lady (had that level of a lifestyle many moons ago, so I totally understand what it entails). If looking specifically on the exterior of a person, you might miss an opportunity of a life time.
xox
yup, you gotta be comfortable with who you are, before anyone else can see the true inner beauty.
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