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Something just horrible has happened today, all I can do is wait by the phone right now....please help me pray...
I don't know when I'll be back online.
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| August 20, 2008, 15:26 |
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You have my support. I hope everything works out ok for you!
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| August 20, 2008, 15:37 |
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I'm on my knees now.....
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| August 20, 2008, 16:13 |
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Hun, i'm here if you need me 
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| August 20, 2008, 16:16 |
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You are in my thoughts ..sensuousbilady
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| August 20, 2008, 16:57 |
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QUOTE (Chazzy @ August 20, 2008, 15:26)Something just horrible has happened today, all I can do is wait by the phone right now....please help me pray...
I don't know when I'll be back online.
ya KNOW you'll get lots of support from ALL here...
hope things work out ok for you!!!
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| August 20, 2008, 17:29 |
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Chazzy, you'll be in my thoughts and prayers.
... xox
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| August 20, 2008, 17:57 |
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You got my prayers Chazzy,if I can help in any other way let me know.
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| August 20, 2008, 18:17 |
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funlovingpair
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Chazzy, you'll be in our thoughts and prayers. We are here if you need us.
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| August 20, 2008, 19:58 |
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Back from hospital, it's my younger brother and I'm afraid it's not looking good...I have never seen and felt so much heartache before...prays appreciated, I'm afraid nothing short of a miracle right now...
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| August 20, 2008, 20:33 |
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I'm so sorry hun, my prayers are with you, your brother and your family.
... xox
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| August 20, 2008, 20:39 |
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funlovingpair
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Please keep us posted. We are praying for a full and speedy recovery.
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| August 20, 2008, 21:39 |
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QUOTE (Chazzy @ August 20, 2008, 20:33)Back from hospital, it's my younger brother and I'm afraid it's not looking good...I have never seen and felt so much heartache before...prays appreciated, I'm afraid nothing short of a miracle right now...
Chazzy, you know we are here for you. I lost my younger brother many years ago. I know what that heartache is like. I pray it does not happen to you. I have lost so many loved ones in my life and that is something no one can understand unless they have been through it.
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| August 20, 2008, 21:56 |
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slowpoke2
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my thoughts are with you chazzy
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| August 20, 2008, 22:57 |
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lizonya
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Good luck Im Sorry for your troubles, I will pray for you and him. Kelly
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| August 21, 2008, 15:06 |
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i am so sorry to hear about your brother.you are in my thoughts and prayers sweetie...sensuousbilady
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| August 21, 2008, 15:11 |
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I can't get to the hospital in the city where he is now, my bad vison doesn't allow me to drive myself anywhere that far and unfamiliar...i have to wait till my husband is home tomorrow
I'm just staying sedated mostly...until then...
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| August 21, 2008, 20:42 |
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You poor thing! That is just horrible! I wish I could help you, NO member of a family should have to go through that! My heart is in your corner!
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| August 22, 2008, 01:06 |
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I maybe far away from you hun, but my love and thoughts are always right there with you  
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| August 22, 2008, 06:48 |
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I'll be leaving as soon as possible today to go and be with him. I haven't gotten to see him yet, by the time I got to one hospital, he was being moved to another.
He's such a good man, and so young yet. I have to admit, I'm in hysterics unless I'm sedated...and since I have been alone through most of this...I've been sedated allot.
I still do not want to believe or accept this...
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| August 22, 2008, 07:53 |
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NRG4U
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omg thats terrible. I'm so sorry hun, I'll keep u & ur family in my thots
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| August 22, 2008, 08:32 |
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dave2big
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Chazzy, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family in this time of trouble. please stay strong and that miracle may just happen. please keep us abreast of what is happening. love ya sweetie !!!!1
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| August 22, 2008, 09:20 |
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Hun, you're constantly in my thoughts and prayers. 
... xox
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| August 22, 2008, 10:32 |
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It's killing me that I'm not there yet, I can't there...I have such bad vision that this may be the last year I'm allowed a driver's license and I must wait to be driven to the hospital...I just want to be there, I haven't gotten to see him yet and I just want to be there already.
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| August 22, 2008, 13:20 |
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I wish I could be there,I'd take you anytime you needed to go.
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| August 22, 2008, 15:24 |
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QUOTE (Chazzy @ August 22, 2008, 13:20)It's killing me that I'm not there yet, I can't there...I have such bad vision that this may be the last year I'm allowed a driver's license and I must wait to be driven to the hospital...I just want to be there, I haven't gotten to see him yet and I just want to be there already.
I know that feeling Chazzy, when I lost my brother I was 350 miles from home..visiting my grandmother with my father. I could not wait until morning, I left immediately. You are in my thoughts and prayers. I hope you get there soon....My love to you, Goody
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| August 22, 2008, 16:19 |
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No words I have can tell you how sorry I am sweetie. I too will pray for him and you.
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| August 22, 2008, 17:25 |
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I did get to the hospital, I came home late yesterday.
There was never really a chance for him, I spent the night there with him, I stayed with him till they came and took him to remove the organs he wanted donated, there were recipients matches already waiting, so today...others will live now.
He was young, and a good man and Goody, I will be going back to the hills soon now where he is will be laid to rest.
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| August 24, 2008, 09:18 |
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Chazzy, my condolences, prayers and sympathy are you with you and your family through this trying time. Any time you want to chat or want any help, I'm here for you.
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xox
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| August 24, 2008, 09:58 |
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QUOTE (Chazzy @ August 24, 2008, 09:18)I did get to the hospital, I came home late yesterday.
There was never really a chance for him, I spent the night there with him, I stayed with him till they came and took him to remove the organs he wanted donated, there were recipients matches already waiting, so today...others will live now.
He was young, and a good man and Goody, I will be going back to the hills soon now where he is will be laid to rest.
My thoughts are with you and your family hun
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| August 24, 2008, 10:13 |
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| August 24, 2008, 10:16 |
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Today, I must drive to be with my family at the funeral home, I know so many of you have been through this and you know...I woke up thinking maybe I would have just this one day to absorb everything, to just find a corner and grieve but if my family says they need me, I will go.
This horrible accident happened in my parents driveway, we are all so worried about how they will be able to return to living there, when it was just outside their back door that he died.
The only thing that kept them from dying of heartache was when they learned he wanted his organs donated, this seems to help them make some sense out of it all.
I am a woman of faith, but yes, I'm a bit pissed at Him because it all happened in front of my parents, at their home...but that's normal and I can't thank you all enough for allowing me to share with you now. I hate being such a buzzkiller to your happy times.
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| August 24, 2008, 10:22 |
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Chazzy i think i speak for most of us, we are all here for you and each other, through tough/sad as well as good/happy times. We are here as long as you need us. 
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| August 24, 2008, 10:59 |
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The call came in yesterday, his liver is already being used by someone locally, his kidneys, heart and eyes will also be received by others.
We will get the paper work soon, and there will be a meeting between families of donors and the recipients. I'm sure that gathering will lift us all.
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| August 24, 2008, 11:28 |
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It is a wonderful thing for anyone to do, give their organs after they go, a little piece of your brother will live on in others, giving them the chance to live. He was a wonderful man to do that.
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| August 24, 2008, 11:32 |
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I am so sorry to hear of your loss sweetie .Not long lost a family member myself so i know what of some you are going through.You and your family will be in my prayers..Leah
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| August 24, 2008, 12:03 |
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Chazzy,
We are so sorry to hear about your tragedy. Sometimes we can never make sense of something so awful. Faith is invisible, it can only be felt, but hold on to it. Anger is part of the process you must go through when you lose someone you love.
Know we are all here for you if you need us.
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| August 24, 2008, 12:22 |
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I'm so, so sorry chazzy, i know how hard this is for U & ur family. My thots are with u.
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| August 24, 2008, 14:17 |
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 in my thoughts and prayers..
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| August 24, 2008, 14:44 |
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QUOTE (Chazzy @ August 24, 2008, 10:22)Today, I must drive to be with my family at the funeral home, I know so many of you have been through this and you know...I woke up thinking maybe I would have just this one day to absorb everything, to just find a corner and grieve but if my family says they need me, I will go.
This horrible accident happened in my parents driveway, we are all so worried about how they will be able to return to living there, when it was just outside their back door that he died.
The only thing that kept them from dying of heartache was when they learned he wanted his organs donated, this seems to help them make some sense out of it all.
I am a woman of faith, but yes, I'm a bit pissed at Him because it all happened in front of my parents, at their home...but that's normal and I can't thank you all enough for allowing me to share with you now. I hate being such a buzzkiller to your happy times.
You are not a buzzkiller, and what you feel is perfectly normal. I lost a friend many years ago who was young...her teenage children were so angry at her for leaving them so soon.
Your brother leaving his organs is one of the most unselfish things Chazzy. He had a very kind heart to do that. He will live on through others.
Taking him to rest in the hills, I can not imagine anything more peaceful or beautiful for him.
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| August 24, 2008, 15:36 |
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funlovingpair
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Chazzy, we are both so sorry for your loss. Happy to hear that he will continue to give life to others through his organ donation. You and your family will be in our thoughts and prayers.
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| August 24, 2008, 18:17 |
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I'm also sorry for your loss Chazzy,my younger brother was 40 when he died from a heart attack,he's gone from this world,but will allways be in our thoughts,just as I'm sure your brother will be in your's.
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| August 24, 2008, 23:33 |
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cjroxy
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omg, chazzy, sorry couldnt be there with you in person, but we are in spirit, use our strength and love, its there for the taking. xxx
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| August 25, 2008, 18:34 |
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Just remember the good times you had with him while he was alive and the donation of his organs to help others, was the crowning achievement of his life. Long live your brother!!!
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| August 25, 2008, 20:01 |
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lonerwolf
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Chassy,
I am coming in on what happened late, but I wanted to extend my deepest condolences and I know what it is like to lose someone close to you. " May the clouds lift his spirit and the gates of Heaven open to take his soul till you meet him again someday" Chassy my thoughts are with you.
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| August 26, 2008, 01:14 |
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The funeral wss toay a beautful cermnomy, so many attend and so many made that long trip to the hills for the burial.
We've mangaged unptil now to focus on arrangements and such, but now I know a whole other phase of grievement will begin.
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| August 26, 2008, 16:59 |
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He was a musician and his friends played a little for us, Elton John's "Your Song" and The Beatles "Blackbird" accoustically...of course, our own, the family that plays bluegrass/gospel played "In the Sweet by and by"
I cut a lock of my hair and placed in it an antique victorian locket and that was placed in his hands.
My husband is off from work till Friday and I do appreciate that time I'll have here with him, but then, I do look forward to some peaceful, quiet uninterrpted alone time too.
Goody, I can't say it was good to be back in the hills again at this time, but it was sweet to be there and the so many that gathered there with us, the so many that made that long drive only reinforces why I'm am so proud of I come from there, to be one of them.
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| August 27, 2008, 09:33 |
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Chazzy, I am so sorry for your loss hon. I have not checked the forums in a few days and my heart was saddened to hear the news of the loss of your younger brother.  You and all of your family will be in my prayers. In the meantime you take care of yourself and if you just need to talk to someone I have a good listening ear. I will give you my phone number in your private mail.
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| August 27, 2008, 11:03 |
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Chazzy again so sorry for your loss .If you need to talk you know where to find me .You are in my thoughts...Sensuousbilady
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| August 27, 2008, 11:32 |
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QUOTE (lizonya @ August 21, 2008, 15:06)Good luck Im Sorry for your troubles, I will pray for you and him. Kelly
Kelly, thank you for thinking of me, we all think of you and Liz constantly, I know I'm not alone when I say we would love to hear from you more often.
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