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When is cheating really cheating ?
We all read about the 100% guarantee. Now lets throw a little spin into the mix. A couple has a third member who they have had sex with numerous times together. Would it be considered cheating if the third person had sex with one or the other of the couple without the other being there. Even though he or she is considered part of the (family).
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| January 25, 2005, 00:10 |
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Re: When is cheating really cheating ?
My personal feeling is NO.
Couples need to have the limits and rules in place BEFORE engaging in threesomes and other non one-on-one sexual ventures.
This is one reason (not the only reason) that I do not engage in threesome sex, I do not wish to be a marriage ender.
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| January 25, 2005, 04:38 |
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Re: When is cheating really cheating ?
acording to biblical word of scripture just to "covet or kiss in passion" another while married is cheating. In the human world I guess we can all make up our own little rules  So my human rule would be, If your married and realy like anothe person then it wouldnt be cheating but a serious extension of showing your true affection, but being married and sticking your dick in anything that breaths, I would say that would be douwn and out cheating,,, to each his own 
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| January 25, 2005, 05:39 |
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Re: When is cheating really cheating ?
Anything done without your spouse's knowledge can be condsidered cheating, even relationships that are strictly "online". I don't think of cheating as actually being an act of sex, as it is the intent to deceive.
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| January 25, 2005, 07:11 |
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Re: When is cheating really cheating ?
cheating is when your partner doesnt know... that goes for anything from sex to go fish. and if you think you found a grey area and need to ask its probably cheating.
(just my opinion)
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| January 25, 2005, 12:29 |
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Re: When is cheating really cheating ?
It was midnight when this was written ,at that time my mind is a grey area. Just thought I'd throw this one out there and see where it lands.
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| January 25, 2005, 13:19 |
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Re: When is cheating really cheating ?
To me, Kissing is cheating, along with being around someone and you both have the intent to do something
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| January 30, 2005, 18:46 |
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armybody
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Re: When is cheating really cheating ?
Tweak it a bit............No not that!! I didn't mean....I'm talking about the subject.
"Cheating" on ones significant other can also be defined as alienation of affection. The greatest sin as far as I'm concerned is being selfish sexually as a partner.
I myself am seeking sexual satisfaction elsewhere only after exauhsting all hope of reciprocation. I wouldn't feel that I cheated first anyway.
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| February 1, 2005, 16:46 |
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jimlookn
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leavenworth, Kansas, US
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Re: When is cheating really cheating ?
i agree totally. tried for 8yrs to see if my partner would come around, again. i justify playing some, keeping the peace by not pushing her.
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perveman
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Re: When is cheating really cheating ?
Crap! Guity. Just could'nt seem to grasp the concept of monogamy. Hey! I thought just an urban legend. Took a long time to come to terms, as to her leaving. "Dumb-ass!"Oops! (But really only a gazillion times, she never had my sense of humor). Dumb-ass, again.
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| December 1, 2011, 21:29 |
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Re: Re: When is cheating really cheating ?
QUOTE (Chazzy @ January 25, 2005, 07:11)Anything done without your spouse's knowledge can be condsidered cheating, even relationships that are strictly "online". I don't think of cheating as actually being an act of sex, as it is the intent to deceive.
I agree with Chazzy. I think if you are going to play with others then there should be a discussion as to if one on one sex is allowed. I see intimacy developing during one on one sex and that becomes something you cannot share with your partner.
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