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what's wrong with just making friends?
i've noticed that alot of people join this site to meet people . then if they don't get any action after a couple of weeks, or months, they quit. don't they seem to realize that they WON'T find a buncha nicer people to become friends with?
i'll admit it, when i joined, i was just looking to get laid . but i didn't have much luck with that. but i stuck around anyway, cuz i've made such great friends here. and i've met a few members here. a not just for sex, either, and STILL had a great time. so tell me? what's wrong with hanging out and making friends? 
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| May 26, 2008, 17:30 |
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Re: what's wrong with just making friends?
Nothing wrong with that hon. Actually that is why I like this site. I've met a lot of very nice people where I can show my pics, look at others, and have lots of fun while making new friends . Pretty cool. 
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| May 26, 2008, 20:22 |
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slowpoke2
52 / male
aberdeen, Scotland, UK
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Re: what's wrong with just making friends?
when i joined it was not to get laid (too far away to and not sure if anyone would anyway)it was just to have fun and i have made some friends here too, there is a good bunch of people here 
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| May 26, 2008, 20:51 |
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Re: what's wrong with just making friends?
You can never have too many friends.
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| May 27, 2008, 08:14 |
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Re: what's wrong with just making friends?
Live life for what it is today, not for tomorrow! A friend is someone who gives you total freedom to be yourself, and accepting you just the way you are!  
tica... 
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| May 27, 2008, 08:33 |
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Re: what's wrong with just making friends?
I love all the friends i have made and i stay around for that reason. 
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| May 27, 2008, 09:12 |
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funlovingpair
59 / couple
Frozen Tundra, Minnesota, US
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Re: what's wrong with just making friends?
About the same story here also. Started because we wanted to find another woman to share our experiences with. But we have found lots of very hot, sexy and beautiful women , not for sex, but for lasting friendships. Oh yea the guys we have meet are great also. Yes we have meet a few people from here in person, not for sex, but for friendship . We couldn't ask for more. We have no intentions of leaving either. 
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| May 27, 2008, 12:04 |
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stevanos
65 / male
A place in Bendover, British Columbia, Canada
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Re: Re: what's wrong with just making friends?
QUOTE (ticaD @ May 27, 2008, 08:33)Live life for what it is today, not for tomorrow! A friend is someone who gives you total freedom to be yourself, and accepting you just the way you are!
tica...
I like that tica...you are so right...thanks friend (roses again today)
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| May 27, 2008, 14:27 |
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cjroxy
59 / couple
Hot and Balmy, England, UK
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Re: Re: what's wrong with just making friends?
QUOTE (ticaD @ May 27, 2008, 08:33)Live life for what it is today, not for tomorrow! A friend is someone who gives you total freedom to be yourself, and accepting you just the way you are!
tica...
totally agree honey
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| May 27, 2008, 17:55 |
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cjroxy
59 / couple
Hot and Balmy, England, UK
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Re: Re: what's wrong with just making friends?
QUOTE (hotbubblegum @ May 27, 2008, 09:12)I love all the friends i have made and i stay around for that reason.
We love you too honey. xx
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| May 27, 2008, 17:55 |
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funlovingpair
59 / couple
Frozen Tundra, Minnesota, US
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Re: what's wrong with just making friends?
There is nothing wrong with making just friends here. Sex isn't everything, now is it?
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| May 27, 2008, 20:53 |
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Re: what's wrong with just making friends?
No, not everything, but it sure can be fun.  hee,hee
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| May 27, 2008, 21:20 |
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dave2big
81 / male
somewhere, Nebraska, US
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Re: what's wrong with just making friends?
i truly enjoy the friends i have made here ! anytime i am down , they come through with good advice,and when i am happy they are glad for me. you know who you all are, thank you !!!!  
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| May 28, 2008, 00:10 |
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kande2123
37 / couple
new kensington, Pennsylvania, US
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Re: what's wrong with just making friends?
making friends is good and all, but so far what we are getting is nothing, we have been on this site for months now, first as standard members and now our 1 month membership is expiring and still nothing, no friends, no messages and no attention at all, what's good with that?
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| May 28, 2008, 00:58 |
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Mooant
41 / male
New Britain, Connecticut, US
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Re: what's wrong with just making friends?
Posting in the forums and spending time in the chat rooms are probably the best way to get attention. Be more vocal and you'll likely see more people viewing your profile.
Off to go take a look now...
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| May 28, 2008, 01:01 |
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Re: what's wrong with just making friends?
I agree. Forum activity is the best way to meet new people . I rarely go to the search ads to check someone out unless they have posted something here. Hang in there for a while. I think after this post you will begin to see some results.
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| May 28, 2008, 06:26 |
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prettyplze1
54 / female
Licking pussyville Essex, England, UK
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Re: what's wrong with just making friends?
The best relationships come from being just friends
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| May 28, 2008, 08:00 |
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Re: what's wrong with just making friends?
Never a truer word spoken 
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| May 28, 2008, 08:00 |
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Re: Re: what's wrong with just making friends?
QUOTE (kande2123 @ May 28, 2008, 00:58)making friends is good and all, but so far what we are getting is nothing, we have been on this site for months now, first as standard members and now our 1 month membership is expiring and still nothing, no friends, no messages and no attention at all, what's good with that?
I've never seen y'all in the forums. That's how you get to know people around here. I've been here for almost 4 years and just now found what I was looking for! Why am I sticking around? Because of the friends I've made over the years, plain and simple. 
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| May 28, 2008, 10:44 |
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funlovingpair
59 / couple
Frozen Tundra, Minnesota, US
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Re: Re: Re: what's wrong with just making friends?
QUOTE (MoonHowler @ May 28, 2008, 10:44) QUOTE (kande2123 @ May 28, 2008, 00:58)making friends is good and all, but so far what we are getting is nothing, we have been on this site for months now, first as standard members and now our 1 month membership is expiring and still nothing, no friends, no messages and no attention at all, what's good with that?
I've never seen y'all in the forums. That's how you get to know people around here. I've been here for almost 4 years and just now found what I was looking for! Why am I sticking around? Because of the friends I've made over the years, plain and simple.
I have to agree with Moon. You need to make yourself more visible. Post in the forums, hang out in the chat room. We've been here for a few years now, and we have made some of the greatest friends that anyone could have. Yes, we've have meet some in person also. I compare it to going to a bar and sitting in a corner. If you don't get out and mingle with people, how are they going to get to know ya'll. So just keep posting in here, get into chat and things will turn around for ya.
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| May 28, 2008, 11:12 |
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Re: what's wrong with just making friends?
Hell, even if you are not looking for the community/friends kind of thing here, ya never know, ten minutes after you delete your profile, someone who is a perfect match for you joins...
I recommend just relax and mingle any way you can, people travel for work, people travel for vacations, people move around allot...I mean if someone is looking for someone that lives 10 minutes away from them, do ya really need the "World Wide Web" to do that? Hell..just shut off your computer and walk outside!
Anyway, I'd suggest just keeping a free account here and pop back in every so often, tons of new people join every day.
Also, don't keep yourself narrowed down to just your immediate locality...people do move around and travel allot, and ya never know, someone you make a friend of in the chatroom may have a friend that travels or lives near you...stuff like that does happen!
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| May 28, 2008, 20:37 |
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kande2123
37 / couple
new kensington, Pennsylvania, US
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Re: what's wrong with just making friends?
well thank you all for your help on this subject, i did however notice that ever since i posted on this subject alot more ppl have become interested and hold longer conversations, thank you all again and we will be taking your advise.
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| May 31, 2008, 16:23 |
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Re: Re: what's wrong with just making friends?
QUOTE (kande2123 @ May 31, 2008, 16:23)well thank you all for your help on this subject, i did however notice that ever since i posted on this subject alot more ppl have become interested and hold longer conversations, thank you all again and we will be taking your advise.
Just jump in... the water's warm, and everyone's friendly!
tica...
xox
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| May 31, 2008, 16:27 |
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funlovingpair
59 / couple
Frozen Tundra, Minnesota, US
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Re: Re: Re: what's wrong with just making friends?
QUOTE (ticaD @ May 31, 2008, 16:27) QUOTE (kande2123 @ May 31, 2008, 16:23)well thank you all for your help on this subject, i did however notice that ever since i posted on this subject alot more ppl have become interested and hold longer conversations, thank you all again and we will be taking your advise.
Just jump in... the water's warm, and everyone's friendly!
tica...
xox
But ya gotta watch out for that TicaD chick. She never keeps her hands to herself. 
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| May 31, 2008, 17:43 |
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Re: Re: Re: Re: what's wrong with just making friends?
QUOTE (funlovingpair @ May 31, 2008, 17:43) QUOTE (ticaD @ May 31, 2008, 16:27) QUOTE (kande2123 @ May 31, 2008, 16:23)well thank you all for your help on this subject, i did however notice that ever since i posted on this subject alot more ppl have become interested and hold longer conversations, thank you all again and we will be taking your advise.
Just jump in... the water's warm, and everyone's friendly!
tica...
xox
But ya gotta watch out for that TicaD chick. She never keeps her hands to herself.
LMAO... you betcha! I do have to admit I have hand troubles (in a good way), no doubt!!... I never say never!!
tica...
xox
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