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In all honesty...
How honest should you be with a partner ? How much of your past sex life do you think they need to know? (Other than the question of being STD free or not,) How much information do you need to know about your current partner ?
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| December 31, 2004, 08:55 |
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Re: In all honesty...
Guess it all depends on the couples involement. As for us we tell each other everything. Although I have been called a quote (he-whore) it really doesn't matter to mine. To us anyway ,honesty is everything.We dont push each other or use things as a weapon against one another. Nobodys perfect and we all do things we're not proud of. Better she here it from me than someone else. Besides that when your as good as me, well, what do you expect. lol (Right Pepper)
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| December 31, 2004, 09:29 |
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It really shouldn't matter as long as disease is not an issue.
I do ask though. you know, just curious. 
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| December 31, 2004, 15:06 |
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| December 31, 2004, 18:42 |
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| January 10, 2005, 14:29 |
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Re: In all honesty...
We'll add a little more to this question.....what if there was something or someone in your past and you're fairly certain your current partner may have a problem with it?
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| June 29, 2006, 06:37 |
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heretopleaseyou
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wilkes-barre, Pennsylvania, US
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your partner needs to accept you for who you are NOW.not who you were in the past.If they are not able to accept you for who you are NOW then they will never trust you and the relationship is doomed. Find someone who accepts you for who you are NOW and understand that as humans we can change.BESIDES WHAT IS IN THE PAST IS JUST AN IMAGE. WHAT IS REAL IS NOW
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| June 29, 2006, 07:30 |
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funlovingpair
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Frozen Tundra, Minnesota, US
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We tell each other every thing. If I go out with the boys, I'll tell her where, when, how. A friend of mine took me bar hoping for about day, he told me not to tell MA where we've been, thinking she would tell his wife. Once I poured myself into the couch, she asked where we went, so I told her every strip club, the only bars we went to, that we where at. Once I sobered up a little, we had great sex . She had my friend on pins and needles for about week, then she couldn't hold it in any longer and let the cat out the bag, so to speak. 
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| June 29, 2006, 10:14 |
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Re: Re: In all honesty...
QUOTE (Chazzy @ June 29, 2006, 06:37)We'll add a little more to this question.....what if there was something or someone in your past and you're fairly certain your current partner may have a problem with it?
It seems as though you are looking for a specific answer to a to vast subject, without more information it is hard to answer in detail, first off is this about you? second is this current partner Hubby or somone else? How long have you/they been with this so called current partner? And I guess the main issue here would be, why now all of a sudden is this a problem for him/her, or could this be a latent "get even tool" spawned from some other argument in your past relationship?
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| June 29, 2006, 10:22 |
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Re: In all honesty...
It's a "general" question and has nothing to do with me, or anyone else in particular. I like questions that can have many facets, questions that make you really search yourself out.
So...on with it. If you found out something about your partner's past that they had not told you about, would you have any feelings about whether they trust you enough to tell you everything? Would you, from then on, wonder if there could be other things that they may not wish to share with you? Would it effect your trust in them as a current partner?
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| June 29, 2006, 14:18 |
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We have always been honest with eachother, which has not always been easy - but it made us stronger in the end.
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| June 29, 2006, 14:23 |
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Re: Re: In all honesty...
QUOTE (Chazzy @ June 29, 2006, 14:18)It's a "general" question and has nothing to do with me, or anyone else in particular. I like questions that can have many facets, questions that make you really search yourself out.
So...on with it. If you found out something about your partner's past that they had not told you about, would you have any feelings about whether they trust you enough to tell you everything? Would you, from then on, wonder if there could be other things that they may not wish to share with you? Would it effect your trust in them as a current partner?
My past. Who you been talking to? I swear I'm inocent! They made me do it, everything!! I tried to resist honest. Wow I feel so much better now 
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| June 29, 2006, 14:23 |
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