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jcollimns
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Rochester, New York, US
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NEED SOME HELP
I dated a women 4 about a year and a half, and broke it off cause she just didnt understand that i needed some space. But its been like 3 months since we broke up, and out of the blue she called me for a booty call , which I obliged. And for the past few weeks we have seen each other a couple times a week, but i am worried she might think we r back together or smother me . What should I do, or say so i wont ruin it cause the sex is great, and want to continue, Please help.
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| December 28, 2004, 12:44 |
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Re: NEED SOME HELP
VERY shitty position to be in... i know... all i can say, based on my own experiences... sacrifice the sex and stop it quick!! in the end its not worth it.... but if she doesnt show the signs of your worries just proceed with caution??
disclaimer: anything i say is purely my narrow opinion based upon a limited slice of the facts presented... i take no responsiblity in the outcome of thes matters (unless of course it leads to a hot babe in my bed). carry on with your regularly scheduled procreating.
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| December 28, 2004, 13:37 |
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Re: NEED SOME HELP
Just lay it out....and say it, you're just interested in no-strings sex. You may lose out on some easy sex, but you gain by not worrying about your feelings for her not being as deep as her feelings for you, and possible having to deal with things snowballing to the point you have to go through a big break up all over AGAIN! If you're lucky, she's just using you like a cheap piece of meat for her own personal sexual gratification and doesn't really give a fuck about you or getting back together !
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| December 28, 2004, 14:49 |
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Re: NEED SOME HELP
I agree with Both BCB and Chazzy.... Tell the girl straight up that you are ONLY interested in her BODY, that the Relationship is OVER, and if she even blinks.... dump her completely. Do not pass pussy, go directly to masturbation. (so to speak).
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my disclaimer... I don't know nothing, I was home watchin' TV.
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| December 28, 2004, 15:15 |
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jcollimns
44 / male
Rochester, New York, US
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Re: NEED SOME HELP
thanks for the adviced guys, honesty, straigt forward huh, ok... i guess ur right, hopefully she is just tring to use me... lol 
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| December 28, 2004, 16:33 |
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Re: NEED SOME HELP
I think also, that chazzy has pretty much summed it up. All I can add is a couple old sayings:
1. never mess with a sleeping dog.
2. dont stir the pot especialy if something might be burning on the botton.
You are both adults I presume, and I think she knows the score as well as you. If you hang around together enough you will find out if you are ment for each other.And You might find out you like her,and she might wind-up dumpping you, that would realy hurt. Good luck
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| December 28, 2004, 17:46 |
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