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Playing head games...or the art of seduction
How much is just playing head games...and when is it the art of seduction, or the dance of courtship?
Is it a head game to use jealousy to fire up someone, or a common practice of seduction?
Is the old "hard to get" routine a part of the dance or just unnecessary game playing?
Is an honest, upfront person boring to you, or refreshing?
Is complete openness about everything ever just too dull?
Do you enjoy the dance of seduction and courtship, is there still a need for the "thrill of the hunt"
What do you consider to be just bullshit head games, what do you consider to be flattering and seductive?
Is too honest and easy uninteresting and too gamey just childish?
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| May 8, 2008, 18:50 |
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Re: Playing head games...or the art of seduction
Everyone comes from all walks of life... what one individual perceives relating to playing head games, the art of seduction, or the dance of courtship... another individual doesn't, that's what makes us very unique and different.
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| May 8, 2008, 22:10 |
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stevanos
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A place in Bendover, British Columbia, Canada
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Re: Playing head games...or the art of seduction
-jealousy is a head game
-hard to get is part of the dance
-honest and up front is neither boring or refreshing it depends on the two people
-Being open is very important...it's a waste of time to lie
-I enjoy the dance of enjoyment and courtship very much...it's more my style...Yet I thing the thrill of the hunt is very important also in relation to the romance of it all. You need to have some excitement
-Bullshit head games? Well I'm not going to comment on that one...some of you may not agree
- Honest and easy is always interesting
-too gamey...well? 
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| May 8, 2008, 23:15 |
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Re: Playing head games...or the art of seduction
Some things I think are a bit silly, but maybe explained to me in a different way, I would see it differently...
Just as an example, the 3 day wait before you call rule.
If you have a first date with someone, and you really click with them, you are totally smitten with them but this "rule" says calling them the next day to tell them how much you enjoyed their company is wrong, you'll appear to be desperate and you should always wait 3 days, then call.
I don't get that one much, seems like a head game to me, but I guess if you're worried about "blowing it" by seeming too desperate, too serious too quick...I dunno.
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