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bear
63 / male
OHIO, Ohio, US
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Sex
Ladies, I have a question for you. This one is serious.
What would cause you to lose interest in having sex with you partner? Trying to figure out what has happened.
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| March 29, 2008, 11:42 |
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Re: Sex
If it got boring and predictable. If i wasn't getting what i needed and it was all about him.
But sometimes it isn't either persons fault, things just happen and there is nothing either of you can do to change it. 
Talking to each other is a good start.
Both go out for a quiet meal and just talk to her, showing concern about her feelings is always welcome. 
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| March 29, 2008, 13:06 |
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Re: Sex
Lots and lots of things...fatigue, medications, hormone imbalance caused by a medical condition or a phase of natural aging, untreated depression, even just a "blue" phase...
A woman can be showing side effects of medication, or having a blue phase, isn't feeling well physically or is exhausted maybe under allot of stress from the job or family, even a vitamin/mineral deficiency or even with a change in diet. Sometimes is just kinda natural for a person's sex drive to dip and peak during their entire life.
Best thing, just ask...if she doesn't know why then for her physical well being, a check up might be a good idea.
If all is good with her life and health, then give it some time and patience, talk it about it but don't pressure.
I know you bear, you're a good man and I know you adore you wife and you're right to show some real concern for her.
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| March 29, 2008, 13:06 |
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40something
57 / female
In the Sun, Arizona, US
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Re: Sex
I always remember that conversation from "What women want"
He can't ignore you all day and then expect you to turn on like a lightbulb.
It is very hard for me to be interested when I have been stressed and upset all day, and now that he remembers I am alive -- hey he wants sex. Women are more interested in the whole picture. Show her she is important to you, take a day and tell her she matters, she matters so much you are willing to put everything else on hold to pay attention only to her and her concerns. Sit down and ask her? What is going on, how can you help... just that can get the lines of communication open and start the process of figuring out what is going on.
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| March 30, 2008, 20:48 |
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Re: Sex
a baby. LMAO
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| March 30, 2008, 21:02 |
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bear
63 / male
OHIO, Ohio, US
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Re: Re: Sex
QUOTE (boredcountryboy @ March 30, 2008, 21:02)a baby. LMAO
Well, I know for a fact it isn't that!  By the way, Congrats!
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| March 31, 2008, 01:20 |
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Re: Re: Sex
QUOTE (boredcountryboy @ March 30, 2008, 21:02)a baby. LMAO
Boy howdy, you ain't kiddin'! And it doesn't end when they get older, either 
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| March 31, 2008, 09:45 |
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QUOTE (MoonHowler @ March 31, 2008, 09:45) QUOTE (boredcountryboy @ March 30, 2008, 21:02)a baby. LMAO
Boy howdy, you ain't kiddin'! And it doesn't end when they get older, either
Very true, the older they get the more you worry!!!
Sorry for going  
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| March 31, 2008, 09:53 |
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Re: Re: Re: Re: Sex
QUOTE (hotbubblegum @ March 31, 2008, 09:53) QUOTE (MoonHowler @ March 31, 2008, 09:45) QUOTE (boredcountryboy @ March 30, 2008, 21:02)a baby. LMAO
Boy howdy, you ain't kiddin'! And it doesn't end when they get older, either
Very true, the older they get the more you worry!!!
Sorry for going
That's what my mom says.--still 
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| April 1, 2008, 14:13 |
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Re: Sex
Just a suggestion... for healthy marriages ONLY... there is an organization called "Marriage Encounters".
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| April 2, 2008, 19:05 |
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Re: Sex
too much just aint enough for my wood log 
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