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TrimmedNeat
40 / female
hiding out in, Indiana, US
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vip and messaging
well i don't know if you have had problems but some of these new vip guys really let loose with a barrage of messages and know i can ignore them but hate doing that but they don't know when to stop.only way is to just tell them they are a pest i guess 
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| February 15, 2008, 15:14 |
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Re: vip and messaging
QUOTE (TrimmedNeat @ February 15, 2008, 15:14)well i don't know if you have had problems but some of these new vip guys really let loose with a barrage of messages and know i can ignore them but hate doing that but they don't know when to stop.only way is to just tell them they are a pest i guess
guess you just gotta let them be for now...cum into the non-vip Lobby and visit with Tropi.....i'll soothe you and comfort you. 
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| February 15, 2008, 15:32 |
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Re: vip and messaging
QUOTE (TrimmedNeat @ February 15, 2008, 15:14)well i don't know if you have had problems but some of these new vip guys really let loose with a barrage of messages and know i can ignore them but hate doing that but they don't know when to stop.only way is to just tell them they are a pest i guess
Once you've said "No thank you" that should be enough, if not then don't feel any guilt if you need to go to there profile and click the "block/ignore this member" Then...you won't even see their messages!
(if problems occur in the chatroom there is a setting there that will turn off the "instant private chat"...don't feel hesitant about using that, I think most of us women do when we visit the chatroom, otherwise we'd spend all our time in the there saying "no" and closing dialog windows.
...and VIP doodes....C'MON!!! If someone says "No" in any way, shape or form, lay off....no means no...move on please!! To make a pest of yourself doesn nothing more than make people wanna hide from you, avoid you and block you.
No one here should in any way feel harrassed!
We're all here to enjoy ourselves, and how can one do that if they spend all there time here telling the same people "no" over and over.
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| February 15, 2008, 16:04 |
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Re: Re: vip and messaging
QUOTE (Chazzy @ February 15, 2008, 16:04) QUOTE (TrimmedNeat @ February 15, 2008, 15:14)well i don't know if you have had problems but some of these new vip guys really let loose with a barrage of messages and know i can ignore them but hate doing that but they don't know when to stop.only way is to just tell them they are a pest i guess
Once you've said "No thank you" that should be enough, if not then don't feel any guilt if you need to go to there profile and click the "block/ignore this member" Then...you won't even see their messages!
(if problems occur in the chatroom there is a setting there that will turn off the "instant private chat"...don't feel hesitant about using that, I think most of us women do when we visit the chatroom, otherwise we'd spend all our time in the there saying "no" and closing dialog windows.
...and VIP doodes....C'MON!!! If someone says "No" in any way, shape or form, lay off....no means no...move on please!! To make a pest of yourself doesn nothing more than make people wanna hide from you, avoid you and block you.
No one here should in any way feel harrassed!
We're all here to enjoy ourselves, and how can one do that if they spend all there time here telling the same people "no" over and over.
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| February 15, 2008, 17:28 |
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Mooant
41 / male
New Britain, Connecticut, US
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Re: vip and messaging
Yea, some people just don't get the hint. If they're bothering you, its always best to just state the plain truth. That's what I try to do...
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| February 15, 2008, 18:16 |
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Re: vip and messaging
Guys are like that! Give um a few naughty pictures and then think they have the right to act like chumps. Hey were not all like that of course so ignore the bad apples and have fun.
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| February 15, 2008, 18:40 |
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Re: vip and messaging
There's no reason why anyone should have to tolerate harrassment. If they don't get the hint after you tell them you're not interested, use the ignore button. No reason to feel "bad' nor guilty about it.
 
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| February 15, 2008, 21:54 |
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Re: vip and messaging
I'd hate to think that any VIP thinks that their paid membership in anyway gives them the right to harrass anyone!
Trust me, enough complaints about a VIP, enough people leaving the site because of harrassment from a VIP and you can be banned just as easily, and as quickly as a non-vip.
We need our free account members as much as the paying members.
It's the free account members that rely on the chatrooms and forums, they keep the place active, buzzing and lively and make the membership worth it's price. Of course, we need the paying members to keep the site up and running and for upgrades but that's all worthless to everyone if a few VIPs are using their membership to run off all the freakin' women by harrassing them!!!
Gawd, talk about cuttin' off your freakin' nose to spite your freakin' face!!! Geez....
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| February 16, 2008, 13:20 |
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Re: vip and messaging
Just say, no thanks hun and don't feel guilty about it, you shouldn't feel pressured into messaging anyone you don't want.
Don't let it stop your fun, as this is such a great place with some amazing members.  
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| February 16, 2008, 13:21 |
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Re: vip and messaging
Great topic! We will apply some of the suggestions given here. We are not new at WN, well I am (the He-half)! My wife have been on and off wn because she didn't know how to deal with some of the people that can't take "no" or "sorry, I am not interested". It's a great site, and my wife had some great enjoyable fun here - and I want her to continue to enjoy the fun again. What do i get? The benefits and bonuses... mutual fun that a husband and wife should have!
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| February 16, 2008, 13:42 |
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Liberalwife
47 / female
north, England, UK
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Re: vip and messaging
QUOTE (TrimmedNeat @ February 15, 2008, 15:14)well i don't know if you have had problems but some of these new vip guys really let loose with a barrage of messages and know i can ignore them but hate doing that but they don't know when to stop.only way is to just tell them they are a pest i guess
I can't see any "problem" here? Wether its a VIP or a non- VIP message, there are options to ignore - (as in put on ignore list  ) or report?? - so use them !
Lighten up, and enjoy the fun this site offers. 
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| February 16, 2008, 17:37 |
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Re: vip and messaging
You bet, the block and ignore tools are here for a reason, use 'em guilt free!
I can guarantee you, others use them, you won't be alone!
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| February 16, 2008, 22:01 |
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svedishchef
45 / male
Melbourne, Victoria, Australia
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Re: vip and messaging
Funny my problem stems from noone messaging me.
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| February 17, 2008, 11:17 |
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Re: vip and messaging
it worked with me.....I just don't message much anymore....I guess if a lady is interested she'll let me know!!!!!
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| February 17, 2008, 12:33 |
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Re: vip and messaging
I use to try to reply to every single message, but anymore, that just kills my quality on here.
The type of messages I have quit replying to are the ones that just have alternate contact info in them and not much else...you know the kind...they just say something like..."U R Hot, my yahoo is what_ever" or...."meet me in red room right now"
If someone is sending out messages like that in bulk to everyone and their sister and are getting frustrated at the lack of replies... I don't think I need to change what I'm doing, they need to change what they are doing...
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| February 17, 2008, 20:48 |
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Re: Re: vip and messaging
QUOTE (theone1157 @ February 17, 2008, 12:33)it worked with me.....I just don't message much anymore....I guess if a lady is interested she'll let me know!!!!!
Well, I can say that if any woman gets a message from theone1157, you ought to reply! He's respectful and very easy to talk to!
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| February 17, 2008, 20:49 |
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