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Josh123
37 / male
Conroe, Texas, US
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is it worth it? being VIP i mean
i've been on here for 4 days as a VIP member and really haven't met anybody? is it j/a slow week or will things pick up?
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| February 5, 2008, 14:51 |
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funlovingpair
59 / couple
Frozen Tundra, Minnesota, US
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Re: is it worth it? being VIP i mean
Of course it's worth being a VIP. You can send messages to anyone as a VIP'r. But you really have to give yourself more than 4 days. Keep posting here in the forums and being in the chat rooms. People need to get to know you. Give it some time, you'll make some great friends here, just maybe some will come with benefits.
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| February 5, 2008, 21:57 |
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Re: is it worth it? being VIP i mean
i was vip for a while and nonvip for a LOOOONGG ass time. depending on your reasons for being here its well worth it. (assuming you actually want to meet someone in some manner)
just remember sex site or not its still people you're trying to meet. use the same boundaries and respect as anyplace else in life and patients... LOTS OF IT. lol the odds are against a guy at a place like this but if you put in the time and effort the rewards can be well worth it.
good luck
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| February 5, 2008, 22:21 |
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Re: Re: is it worth it? being VIP i mean
QUOTE (boredcountryboy @ February 5, 2008, 22:21)i was vip for a while and nonvip for a LOOOONGG ass time. depending on your reasons for being here its well worth it. (assuming you actually want to meet someone in some manner)
just remember sex site or not its still people you're trying to meet. use the same boundaries and respect as anyplace else in life and patients... LOTS OF IT. lol the odds are against a guy at a place like this but if you put in the time and effort the rewards can be well worth it.
good luck
Good advice BCB! The thing about this place Josh is that whether you are in the real world or here on a website, we are all willing to help you out here. Just ask the question and you will always get an honest respons or seventy.
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| February 5, 2008, 23:29 |
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Re: is it worth it? being VIP i mean
I love VIP mainly for being able to message any one I want, anytime I want...that's worth allot.
As far as not meeting anyone yet, well, you've just met quite a few people with this post.
You're young and darn cute...so you shouldn't have a problem really.
IF you're not getting any replies to your notes, maybe let any of us who replied here know what kinda notes you are writing and maybe we can tell ya where you're going offtrack,
But don't take any rejections too harshly, there are some women online here all the time that don't ever reply to anyone so it's not personal.
IF you have any problems or questions, write me...and if you need any help making the most of your time here write me or any of these people that replied here, I sure can personally vouch for every one of them! They're good people!
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| February 6, 2008, 07:51 |
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Josh123
37 / male
Conroe, Texas, US
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Re: is it worth it? being VIP i mean
idk i guess i expected there to be more people on this site... cuz i mean i'm not gonna pay 20 some odd dollars a month if i'm not gettin any from here..ya know?
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| February 6, 2008, 15:55 |
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Re: is it worth it? being VIP i mean
give it time and i guess it depends on how much time you spend on here.give people respect and post in forums.i had the same thoughts myself and gave it time and have made a few friends and seems to be getting better all the time for me.the being able to message people is such a plus and naughty notes just don't cut it.have fun josh and you can always pay a hundred for lifetime
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| February 6, 2008, 19:04 |
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savageone
54 / female
chicago, Illinois, US
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Re: is it worth it? being VIP i mean
it has taken me a while to make friends on here but it is very much worth your wild to give it time. i have many friends now but did take time. 
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| February 6, 2008, 22:12 |
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absix
40 / male
Web Naughty
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Re: Re: is it worth it? being VIP i mean
QUOTE (Josh123 @ February 6, 2008, 15:55)idk i guess i expected there to be more people on this site... cuz i mean i'm not gonna pay 20 some odd dollars a month if i'm not gettin any from here..ya know?
Well, if you want it THAT fast you should've got a hooker, not a VIP membership.
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| February 7, 2008, 08:59 |
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Re: Re: Re: is it worth it? being VIP i mean
QUOTE (absix @ February 7, 2008, 08:59) QUOTE (Josh123 @ February 6, 2008, 15:55)idk i guess i expected there to be more people on this site... cuz i mean i'm not gonna pay 20 some odd dollars a month if i'm not gettin any from here..ya know?
Well, if you want it THAT fast you should've got a hooker, not a VIP membership.
Or look at it this way Josh, this site is a tool box full of tools....and you need to have some skills to use the tools.
Skills can be learned.
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| February 7, 2008, 13:52 |
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wandering5tar
53 / male
London, England, UK
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Re: Re: Re: Re: is it worth it? being VIP i mean
QUOTE (Chazzy @ February 7, 2008, 13:52) QUOTE (absix @ February 7, 2008, 08:59) QUOTE (Josh123 @ February 6, 2008, 15:55)idk i guess i expected there to be more people on this site... cuz i mean i'm not gonna pay 20 some odd dollars a month if i'm not gettin any from here..ya know?
Well, if you want it THAT fast you should've got a hooker, not a VIP membership.
Or look at it this way Josh, this site is a tool box full of tools....and you need to have some skills to use the tools.
Skills can be learned.
And tools can be sharpened (if required) with the latest medical technology...
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| February 8, 2008, 03:15 |
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Re: is it worth it? being VIP i mean
You gotta think too when you're online, what are your chances that you're going to meet or even find someone that's remotely close to your location that'll want to meet instantly? Sure it could happen, im not saying it couldn't or it wouldn't... but being VIP doesnt always give you that much more of an advantage on getting laid. Now if you were at a bar in some big ass town that had places for VIP.. i'd say your chances were a lot more bigger than onto here. There's just more advantage on here being a VIP as far as being able to email whoever you want, read another set of forums that nonVIP can't read... and have access to sex videos, and maybe more. So VIP or not, you can still get a piece but sometimes its a bit tricky even if its just a one night thing.
I'd have to agree a bit with ABS on this one though to a point. Im sure you got some bars around there that you can pick up some chicks from and have it your way.
Im sure some of the newbies that gets on here expects to get some ass out of this site when logging on at first, and us oldies have been on long enough to feel that this is some sort of community where you can say pretty much anything to some degree. Some people have come and go because some came trying to get a piece of ass and find out theres some decency in just the forums alone and some have come trying to get a piece of ass and don't like the way it works around here and leaves... so, basically.. do what you feel works for you. You can hope and hope to find ass on here that might take awhile or settle for decent thoughts from individuals on a normal basis.
Good luck.  
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