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On the rebound
Do most go through some transitional period in between a serious relationship and being totally free and single again?
Have you ever intentionally or not, had a "rebound lover" after a hard and difficult break up?
Have you ever felt like maybe you were the rebound lover with someone?
I think from my viewpoint, that maybe women do use a rebound lover after a break up (maybe not even realizing it)
I think for women (maybe men too?) that when a break up is particularly hard, and there's allot of pressure to go back to something you know is wrong, you know it's the wrong thing to do, but ya just get worn down and weak from allot of pressure, a person will use a rebound lover as a way of "crossing a line" that you know you can't undo or cross back over...kind of a guarantee maybe?
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| February 2, 2008, 20:45 |
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Mooant
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New Britain, Connecticut, US
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Re: On the rebound
This is my first "rebound" period I've ever been in. Most of my other relationships haven't been that serious, so when they ended it was no big deal. But having someone that you truly loved and cared about just quit the relationship with no explanation and do so many things to be hurtful in the aftermath makes this a difficult period for me.
That said...
I think I've reached a stable point mentally and emotionally that I can date again. But I don't know if I'll be able to find a serious relationship. But I definitely wouldn't run away from it if I did find myself in one.
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| February 2, 2008, 21:16 |
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Re: On the rebound
I can't imagine being in another relationship on the other side of this one. I don't know what I would do, I don't see myself as being the rebound type but can't see myself getting married again...
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| February 3, 2008, 00:33 |
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Re: Re: On the rebound
QUOTE (Juilianna @ February 3, 2008, 00:33)I can't imagine being in another relationship on the other side of this one. I don't know what I would do, I don't see myself as being the rebound type but can't see myself getting married again...
You read my mind.
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| February 3, 2008, 03:19 |
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