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mandyandhubby
63 / couple
yeppers, British Columbia, Canada
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Securing the 3rd
Hi all,
We would like your ideas/advice, We have discussed having another man have sex with Mandy as hubby watches and takes pictures, also to have another woman join us for pictures. (We have both agreed to try it and see how we feel about it before continuing on with it) How do we go about asking someone for this? Do we just pay for an escort or go to a bar, casino, nightclub, and just straight out tell someone what we are looking for? We will have a hotel room close by and ready for us, but we are not sure about finding a willing 3rd without offending the person.
thanks for any advise 
m & h
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| January 17, 2008, 15:04 |
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Re: Securing the 3rd
You might find your third and fourth right here at WN.
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| January 17, 2008, 15:29 |
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pepper
56 / female
daytona, Florida, US
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Re: Securing the 3rd
Get to know someone first. Male or female, come up with a set of rules you both agree on. Never, if you're female, meet the potential third for anything alone. Not drinks, dinner, lunch, NOTHING and the same goes for the male of the couple. Trust is a big issue in a situation like this and so it needs to be top of the list to avoid problems between the two of you later on. Meet the person or persons together, at least one time, with no expectations of anything but dinner or drinks. Get to know them. If one of you is not comfortable with the third or third and fourth, don't do it. Period. Be friendly, but not friends, if you understand what I mean. To add a third or fourth is for fun, sexual exploration and arousal between the two of you. Have fun, be friendly, but always keep in mind you are married and that is the person most of your concern should be with.
My husband and I have a lot of fun when we add a third. I love the feeling of more than two hands on my body and he loves the thrill of seeing and participating.
If I can help with anything, let me know.
Pepper
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| January 18, 2008, 13:41 |
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Re: Securing the 3rd
ummmmm: I like "community service" so if you need a volunteer, just send Tropi a note. 
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| January 18, 2008, 15:16 |
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