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help!
Only been here a short time and haven't got to many responses. Do I have the right stuff on my page or is honesty something that I should have avoided? I am contemplating leaving because its just not happening. Let me know
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| January 12, 2008, 17:08 |
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Re: help!
Your profile looks fine to me...How long have you been here?
It takes a little bit of time and a little bit of patience.
Have you sent out many messages, and what do you say in your messages?
I can say for myself that someone who sends me a message that just says "U R hot, my yahoo is blah blah blah" is not likely to get a reply, I'm not all uppidity but it's that kind of message is kinda hard to reply too, and women are likely to get tons of similiar messages meaning one like I described won't stand out.
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| January 12, 2008, 19:49 |
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Re: help!
I pretty much agree with what chazzy says, I've met some fantastic people here in my time (over a year, on and off) and the best thing to do is relax, chill and be yourself aroudn the forums and the chatroom, and if you meet somebody you like the look of, say hello and be as polite and respectful as you would be approaching them in real life.
Just have fun first, and if you meet people for whatever you are looking for it's a welcome bonus!
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| January 12, 2008, 20:08 |
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Re: help!
Chazzy and Hap are right. I have only been on here a week, but been in the forum and chat as much as I can to introduce myself and say hi first and foremost. And I've had some great chats and got to know quite a few members.
Just think of yourself as being at as party where you know no-one, you have to mingle, the rest will help itself.
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| January 13, 2008, 05:20 |
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Re: help!
That's true...you gotta mingle...cyberworld isn't that much different than the real world...you wouldn't walk into a bar with your dick hanging out publicly, walk up to a woman and say " Nice ass , see my dick? Wanna go chat?"
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| January 13, 2008, 08:18 |
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Re: help!
lol, Now THAT would be funny. Worth seeing just for the response.
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| January 13, 2008, 09:18 |
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Re: Re: help!
QUOTE (Chazzy @ January 13, 2008, 08:18)That's true...you gotta mingle...cyberworld isn't that much different than the real world...you wouldn't walk into a bar with your dick hanging out publicly, walk up to a woman and say " Nice ass , see my dick? Wanna go chat?"
That explains soooooooo much...
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