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pookhabear
75 / male
port st lucie, Florida, US
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Soul Mates
Had this conversation with friends recently.
Do they exist.\
Are they imaginary
Is there only one
etc. etc.
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| January 2, 2008, 07:36 |
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Re: Soul Mates
I believe they exsist and i think everyone has one out there somewhere.
Trouble is, we can't seem to bloody find them  
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| January 2, 2008, 08:22 |
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Re: Soul Mates
You'll know them when you meet them. 
That's why they are a "soul mate".
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| January 2, 2008, 12:14 |
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Re: Soul Mates
yeah, i agree with Hob, ya know when you meet them...there is an initial chemistry..sexual and intellectual, physical and non-physical..its there and you both know it.
goes beyond the "infatuation" of the onset of a relationship...its something you sense and understand between the two of you.
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| January 2, 2008, 14:34 |
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cjroxy
59 / couple
Hot and Balmy, England, UK
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Re: Soul Mates
QUOTE (pookhabear @ January 2, 2008, 07:36)Had this conversation with friends recently.
Do they exist.
Are they imaginary
Is there only one
etc. etc.
Pook, you'll know my answer. Yes, they do exist!!, and I do believe that we have different soul mates for the different aspects of our personality.
I was lucky to marry my soul mate, but have friends who I would consider match certain aspects of my personality too, not 100% soul mate, but true.
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| January 2, 2008, 15:26 |
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Re: Soul Mates
yep, definitely exist
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| January 2, 2008, 16:17 |
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40something
57 / female
In the Sun, Arizona, US
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Re: Soul Mates
I agree that there is a chemistry and attraction involved, but there is more to soul mates. For someone to be your soul mate, it stands the test of time. Your relationship steps beyond the initial excitement into reality and the love and respect is still there. It isn't hard to be in love for 2 weeks, or even 2 years, it is hard to still be in love when you know all that is drives you crazy about a man 20 years from now. It isn't hard to love someone who calls you all the time, sends you flowers, writes you love notes ... it is hard to love someone who focuses on work, forgets your birthday, strikes back at you. A soul mate is the person you want to hold you even when that person is the one who hurt you in the first place, because you know he (or she) is the only one who can make you whole again. A soul mate is someone who knows you aren't perfect and loves you anyways.
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| January 2, 2008, 16:58 |
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Re: Re: Soul Mates
QUOTE (40something @ January 2, 2008, 16:58)I agree that there is a chemistry and attraction involved, but there is more to soul mates. For someone to be your soul mate, it stands the test of time. Your relationship steps beyond the initial excitement into reality and the love and respect is still there. It isn't hard to be in love for 2 weeks, or even 2 years, it is hard to still be in love when you know all that is drives you crazy about a man 20 years from now. It isn't hard to love someone who calls you all the time, sends you flowers, writes you love notes ... it is hard to love someone who focuses on work, forgets your birthday, strikes back at you. A soul mate is the person you want to hold you even when that person is the one who hurt you in the first place, because you know he (or she) is the only one who can make you whole again. A soul mate is someone who knows you aren't perfect and loves you anyways.
You get it!!!!
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| January 2, 2008, 18:14 |
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funlovingpair
59 / couple
Frozen Tundra, Minnesota, US
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Re: Soul Mates
Yes i believe they exist, Because I have mine. 
Ma
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| January 2, 2008, 20:29 |
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Re: Soul Mates
I just spent 4 days with mine...went up in the mountains and listened to music  ..went out New Years Eve..  It was...    
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| January 2, 2008, 21:49 |
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slowpoke2
52 / male
aberdeen, Scotland, UK
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Re: Re: Soul Mates
QUOTE (Goody @ January 2, 2008, 21:49)
so sweet, glad you had a wonderfull time 
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| January 2, 2008, 22:40 |
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pookhabear
75 / male
port st lucie, Florida, US
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Re: Soul Mates
Some of the folks i talked to think that there is only one person for everyone, I don't believe that. I believe like most ofyou there can be several for diff parts of your life. I believe I've had 2 one platonic and one not , both female. And if I had to pick between the 2, I'd probably go with the platonic one. It's such a big wide world it's probable that there is more than one.
Like HBG i Think where the hell are they 
FLP, you're lucky
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| January 3, 2008, 05:12 |
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pookhabear
75 / male
port st lucie, Florida, US
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Re: Re: Soul Mates
QUOTE (40something @ January 2, 2008, 16:58)I agree that there is a chemistry and attraction involved, but there is more to soul mates. For someone to be your soul mate, it stands the test of time. Your relationship steps beyond the initial excitement into reality and the love and respect is still there. It isn't hard to be in love for 2 weeks, or even 2 years, it is hard to still be in love when you know all that is drives you crazy about a man 20 years from now. It isn't hard to love someone who calls you all the time, sends you flowers, writes you love notes ... it is hard to love someone who focuses on work, forgets your birthday, strikes back at you. A soul mate is the person you want to hold you even when that person is the one who hurt you in the first place, because you know he (or she) is the only one who can make you whole again. A soul mate is someone who knows you aren't perfect and loves you anyways.
Good description 40, but this is the best part, now that would be a true soul mate
A soul mate is the person you want to hold you even when that person is the one who hurt you in the first place,
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| January 3, 2008, 06:31 |
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Re: Re: Soul Mates
QUOTE (Goody @ January 2, 2008, 21:49)
There ya go!!! Good for you!!!
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| January 3, 2008, 07:42 |
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40something
57 / female
In the Sun, Arizona, US
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Re: Re: Soul Mates
QUOTE (pookhabear @ January 3, 2008, 05:12)Some of the folks i talked to think that there is only one person for everyone, I don't believe that. I believe like most ofyou there can be several for diff parts of your life. I believe I've had 2 one platonic and one not , both female. And if I had to pick between the 2, I'd probably go with the platonic one. It's such a big wide world it's probable that there is more than one.
Like HBG i Think where the hell are they
FLP, you're lucky
I don't know if your right pook - that there can be more than one, but all I can say is I hope so.
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