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A story about a party
Something I just never understood about guys...
Quite some time ago, I was visiting some friends back where I use to live, and every where I looked...someone had spraypainted the phrase (not real name here) "Candlestick Jones" on billboards, signs, walls...
Here's the sum up of the story, this young woman got drunk at a party, got wild and hopped up on a table, used a nearby candlestick on herself while asking for all and any takers, and of course...she got some takers on her offer.
It was a wild night of sex and partying.
My question is...why would men humiliate a woman for that, it just seems when so many men want that NSA sex, and so many men like and fantasize about a "party whore"....it seems like they would keep her on speed dial for the next party, but they seemed to get more joy out of humiliating her publicly?
I sure don't condone the behavour of the infamous Candlestick Jones, but men seem to look for this kind of thing, ask for it, beg for it, and when it happens...they behave like stupid little boys in a high school locker room!
Hell, why not pull the girl off the table and help her dress then take her home if they were so judgemental about her...shy the use then abuse and humilate?
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| December 20, 2007, 11:04 |
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funlovingpair
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Frozen Tundra, Minnesota, US
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Re: A story about a party
I don't why either Chazzy. I guess they have yet to grow the F**K up. 
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| December 20, 2007, 12:05 |
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pookhabear
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port st lucie, Florida, US
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Re: A story about a party
Believe it or not I would have stayed out of it. If she were trying to get away from it and couldn't I would have helped. But, she's doing what she wants
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| December 20, 2007, 12:13 |
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Re: A story about a party
Just seems that men (in general) say they want something and when they get it....they abuse it for amusement?
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| December 20, 2007, 12:21 |
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pookhabear
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port st lucie, Florida, US
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Re: A story about a party
Some men, not all. Can't let the one or two bad apples spoil the bunch
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| December 20, 2007, 12:45 |
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Re: A story about a party
'cos while they're humiliating her nobody can humiliate them for being just as bad.
It sounds childish because it is...
s'not all men though, some men, even straight ones, are actually nice 
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| December 20, 2007, 14:28 |
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Re: A story about a party
If it were high school kids, I could kinda see that...they're immature and so would be their behavour, but all involved were between the ages of 25 to 35.
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| December 20, 2007, 21:05 |
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Re: Re: A story about a party
QUOTE (Chazzy @ December 20, 2007, 21:05)If it were high school kids, I could kinda see that...they're immature and so would be their behavour, but all involved were between the ages of 25 to 35.
You're giving that kind of man too much emotional credit...
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| December 20, 2007, 21:06 |
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Re: A story about a party
I probably am....besides that I'm targeting the men that did the stupid childish graffitti painting all over town, when I'm bettin' there were plenty of women that thought it was funny and the " slut " got what she deserved, and helped spread the gossip...
Ah...just a bunch of childish, cruel, narrow minds
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| December 20, 2007, 21:17 |
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Just glad it wasn't them
A lot of stupid things seem like a good idea at the time. For the girls I know of who'd be involved in that kind of thing - they are messed up and desperate for attention. Call them a victim of something else if you want, but they are actively asking for the treatment they get. And the guys who give it to them are not the most gentlemanly, because that's just the crowd they end up mingling with.
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| December 20, 2007, 21:22 |
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Re: Re: A story about a party
QUOTE (Chazzy @ December 20, 2007, 21:17)I probably am....besides that I'm targeting the men that did the stupid childish graffitti painting all over town, when I'm bettin' there were plenty of women that thought it was funny and the " slut " got what she deserved, and helped spread the gossip...
Ah...just a bunch of childish, cruel, narrow minds
who say's that it was men that did the grafitti painting? some women could have thought it was funny, and it COULD have been a woman that did the "artwork"...either way, it's still WRONG. 
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