What planet do you live on, all you do is harrass us woman
on here, that's probably why she acted like that. If we took a census I bet you've bothered over half the woman in here, wonder how many ignored list's your on. Need to grow up kid.

  QUOTE (kcatwoman @ December 2, 2007, 01:38)


hey that was uncalled for...who knows how many men have bothered other women...and how dare u say that...if u say one thing to a guy and do something irrationally the next - it nothing to do with "what planet I'm on" - wht planet is she on?

I hope u consider a different language next time. If u were in a kinda situation like that, see how u'd react or not as u seem to show.

I'd urge u to edit ur answer, as it is really out of line.

Anyhow, if someone did not want me to contact them I understand after the 1st answer, either don't answer at all, or if it is irritating, reply with a "please don't bother me anymore", I'm not that inhumane.

This isn't a personal punch to anyone in particular, but it is related to someone, am sure they may or may not know who they are.

But how would you tackle this?

Say you meet a lovely lady, almost fall head over heels for her and you have the guts to talk to her, and all is well. You exchange mails, ID's, numbers etc. and things go really well. Even to the extent of u know what ;-)

We even decide to commit for a relationship, and we're in contact for a while...but then all of a sudden, you try contacting her, nothing in return. Mails stop, You know she's there, but don't get anything back.

You think twice, nah...must be some error somehow, somewhere.

Then finally you're in a place, you see her, she walks right past you to another guy, who apparently they are going out with one another again.

Explain to me this? How is this possible? Last time that was me, and now this other guy is here? Helllooo!!!

Oh I don't know why I do it. I think, right, I want to try this out, hope things happen for the best, and all of a sudden out of the blue that happen.

I was heartbrocken, maybe put my heart in too quickly? But what do you suggest a man like me does now and in the future? How to avoid situations like this?

I would like to know, cause it seems good guys get hurt most, I dunno how good I am, but I definately have had my fair share of hurt, not to mention rejections.

So any ladies or guys for that matter who have had a similar situation, and could help out, I would appreciate it?

Thanks

Dear hotbubblegum, jd39l and pookhabear..I would like to thank you for helping me out here. I value your comments imensely and I want to try not to make people bad people, everyone is good at heart (maybe my naiive way of wishful thinking), but I also believe things happen for a reason, whatever they maybe.

But one thing that I have learnt, is that you never know when there is a friendly face aruond the corner from a disaster. Hope to make friends with you guys? And enjoy the experience more here at WN.

There are many fabulous people here, no need to ponder over the few, but look forward to the others. :-)

So hotbubblegum....fancy a MR Right now? ;-) :Dheheh jokes...

hope to catch you all around sometime...Ciao

wow growing up would help and learning that this is lots of fun and not take things so serious.like kcat said don't hound women

I have found in my experience that certain individuals "use" other individuals for what they are lacking in their own lives, maybe its a human flaw, who knows.
The only advice I can offer is that if you dont gamble or live, only exist and automatically get through each day you will not experience the wonders life can offer.
The bad days/experiences always make the good days/experiences so much better, without the bad we wouldnt appreciate the good so much.

  QUOTE (mightydude83 @ December 2, 2007, 12:02)

I have found in my experience that certain individuals "use" other individuals for what they are lacking in their own lives, maybe its a human flaw, who knows.
The only advice I can offer is that if you dont gamble or live, only exist and automatically get through each day you will not experience the wonders life can offer.
The bad days/experiences always make the good days/experiences so much better, without the bad we wouldnt appreciate the good so much.

.....
If anyone is engaging in any harassing behavior, then talk to me about it privately, not in the forums, if anyone is harassing members off the site, it would be just a shame if no one contacted me to help solve, or mediate the problem...I promise your complaints will be dealt with discreetly, and I'll give it my all in time and effort to "fix what's broke".

Sorry, Pook..I'm quoting after you here, just to make sure that my post is on both pages of this thread, just to insure that as many as possible read it....


  QUOTE (Chazzy @ December 2, 2007, 21:23)



Okay, I'm serious here, if any one is having a problem on this site, if you feel you are being harrassed, you don't want to use the chatrooms anymore or thinking about leaving the site because of harrassment, just write me...it won't be the first time this problem has come up and there's always a way to fix it.
You don't have to tell me who is harrassing you, just give me the details on what's happening, is the harrassment by private message or does it happen in the chatrooms? I can work with that...sure, I'd like to know who, just for this reason...how else can we know if the person just doesn't like, or is just pissed at you for some personal reason...or if this person is responsible for causing allot of problems for allot of members here?
Knowing who just allows us to know if one person is the reason behind multiple complaints...but you don't have to tell me who if you are not comfortable with that.

Everyone...free account or VIP doesn't matter, everyone will get the same effort and attention to their problems regardless of what type of account you have here...

Sorry for going off topic, mightdude...